比如,當(dāng)我們聊完一個(gè)話題,對(duì)方對(duì)你表達(dá)了稱贊或反饋時(shí),我們可以試著適時(shí)離開(kāi):
Yeah! I had a good time there. But, hey, I’m going to go and grab something to drink, do you want anything?
是的,我在那里很開(kāi)心。我要去拿飲料,你需要什么嗎?
在派對(duì)上,這個(gè)離開(kāi)的理由就很好:
But, hey, I’m going to go and grab something to drink, do you want anything?
我要去拿飲料,你需要什么嗎?
如果是對(duì)方向我們表達(dá)出離開(kāi)的暗示,我們也要表現(xiàn)出“互相理解”,對(duì)方問(wèn)是否需要幫我們拿杯飲料,可以回答:
No thanks, I’m actually gonna go and catch up with some friends. It was nice chatting with you.
不用了謝謝,我要先離開(kāi),和其他朋友敘一下舊了。很開(kāi)心跟你聊天。
我們也表達(dá)出剛好要去找朋友:
I’m actually gonna go and catch up with some friends.
我要先離開(kāi),和其他朋友敘一下舊了。
最后,走之前別忘說(shuō):
It was nice chatting with you.
很開(kāi)心跟你聊天。
這樣就很有禮貌了,然后回復(fù)可以是:
You, too! See you around.
我也是,一會(huì)兒見(jiàn)。