你的過去,無法定義你。你的錯(cuò)誤,無法定義你。你的失敗,無法定義你。現(xiàn)在的你,和昨天的你,完全不一樣。甚至可以說,此時(shí)此刻的你,和今天早上的你,也完全不一樣。你決定要成為什么樣的人,你下決心要成為什么樣的人,你就是什么樣的人。只需要做出一個(gè)改變,你就能迎接新的生活。
We are all capable of re-inventing ourselves. There's absolutely no reason why anyone should need to live in the dark times of their past when their future is bright and waiting for them.
我們都可以重塑自己。沒有人必須在黑暗的過往中掙扎,光明的未來正在等待他們。
Holding on to things that have gone wrong in the past is never going to serve your future. It's never going to make you feel good in the present. It will only increase your suffering.
糾結(jié)過去的錯(cuò)誤,對你的未來沒有好處,它不會讓現(xiàn)在的你感到快樂,它只會徒增你的痛苦。
So, you have to ask yourself. Is that event, that moment from my past, that moment that is OVER now, worthy of sucking all the joy out of my PRESENT and my FUTURE?
所以,你必須問問自己,那件事,那個(gè)已經(jīng)過去的時(shí)刻,那個(gè)已經(jīng)結(jié)束的時(shí)刻,值不值得讓自己犧牲現(xiàn)在和未來的快樂?
Am I really going to let that moment, that person or event win? Am I really going to let that take away all the joy of my future?
我要讓那個(gè)時(shí)刻,那個(gè)人成為贏家嗎?我真的要讓那些事情奪走未來的快樂嗎?
Let it go. We all make mistakes. We all do. Those who move on have the greatest chance of joy, both now and in the future.
放下吧。人非圣賢,孰能無過,我們都會犯錯(cuò)。繼續(xù)往前走的人,才最有可能獲得現(xiàn)在和未來的快樂。
Forgive yourself. Forgive everything and everyone and feel the weight drop from your shoulders as you walk toward your new life.
原諒自己,原諒所有事,原諒所有人,走向新生活吧,你會感受到肩上的負(fù)擔(dān)消失了。
Repeat to yourself every day. I am not my past. I am not my mistakes. I am not my failures. I am who I decide to become. I am who I COMMIT to become. I commit to become the best I can be. I forgive. I move on. I look forward to the new me.MY BEST IS YET TO COME.
每天都要對自己重復(fù)說這幾句話。我的過去,無法定義我。我的錯(cuò)誤,無法定義我。我的失敗,無法定義我。我想成為什么樣的人,我就是什么樣的人。我下決心要成為什么樣的人,我就是什么樣的人。我選擇原諒,我勇敢向前,我期待嶄新的自己。最好的時(shí)光,就在前方。