VOA常速英語(yǔ)聽(tīng)力：如何在社交中展現(xiàn)真正的興趣

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VOA常速英語(yǔ)，以其地道的發(fā)音、豐富的時(shí)事內(nèi)容，成為提升英語(yǔ)聽(tīng)力與理解能力的關(guān)鍵途徑。它不僅讓全球聽(tīng)眾即時(shí)了解世界動(dòng)態(tài)，還促進(jìn)了跨文化交流，對(duì)于英語(yǔ)學(xué)習(xí)者而言，是不可或缺的聽(tīng)力訓(xùn)練資源，對(duì)提升語(yǔ)言綜合能力至關(guān)重要。讓我們一起走進(jìn)今天的VOA常速英語(yǔ)聽(tīng)力練習(xí)：如何在社交中展現(xiàn)真正的興趣。

英文原文

I used to feel so much pressure in social interactions, pressure that I had to say something interesting or that I had to be interesting. Until I learned, and this is again from Carnegie, he said, "Be interested, not interesting."

我曾經(jīng)在社交互動(dòng)中感到很大的壓力，壓力迫使我要說(shuō)些有趣的話(huà)，或者讓自己變得有趣。直到我學(xué)到，這又是從卡耐基那里學(xué)到的，他說(shuō)：“要對(duì)別人感興趣，而不是讓別人覺(jué)得你有趣?！?/span>

I think, at its core, people will find you interesting if you find them interesting. All of us just want to feel acknowledged and listened to. And the best way to connect with somebody is to just truly care about what they're saying.

我認(rèn)為，從根本上來(lái)說(shuō)，如果你對(duì)別人感興趣，那么別人也會(huì)覺(jué)得你有趣。我們所有人都希望得到認(rèn)可和傾聽(tīng)。與人建立聯(lián)系的最佳方式就是真正關(guān)心他們所說(shuō)的話(huà)。

And you can show this through your actions, by asking questions, by leaning in, and using nonverbal cues like smiling and nodding to show them that you're fully engaged in the conversation.

你可以通過(guò)你的行動(dòng)來(lái)展示這一點(diǎn)，比如提問(wèn)、身體前傾，以及使用非語(yǔ)言信號(hào)，如微笑和點(diǎn)頭，來(lái)表明你完全投入到對(duì)話(huà)中。

Now, this is a crucial tip: if somebody shares with you that, for example, they love to paint, I think it can kind of be almost an instinct for us to try to relate that story back to our own life. So, you might say something like, "Ah, my uncle paints too."

現(xiàn)在，這是一個(gè)關(guān)鍵的建議：如果有人和你分享，比如他們喜歡畫(huà)畫(huà)，我想我們幾乎都會(huì)本能地試圖把這個(gè)故事與自己的生活聯(lián)系起來(lái)。所以，你可能會(huì)說(shuō)：“啊，我叔叔也畫(huà)畫(huà)?！?/span>

And while you might think that this creates a sense of shared experience, it can actually really derail the conversation, because it's taking the story away from them and it's turning it towards yourself.

雖然你可能認(rèn)為這創(chuàng)造了一種共享體驗(yàn)的感覺(jué)，但實(shí)際上它可能會(huì)讓對(duì)話(huà)偏離軌道，因?yàn)樗压适聫乃麄兩砩蠆Z走，并轉(zhuǎn)向你自己。

So, instead of following your connection to the subject, you can instead try to follow your curiosity. Ask them about their art, whether they prefer acrylics or oils, ask them about their latest creation. Essentially, this just gives them space to share more, and it continues to show that you're interested in them.

所以，與其跟隨你與話(huà)題的聯(lián)系，不如試著跟隨你的好奇心。問(wèn)問(wèn)他們的藝術(shù)，他們更喜歡丙烯還是油畫(huà)，問(wèn)問(wèn)他們最新的創(chuàng)作。基本上，這只是給他們更多的空間來(lái)分享，并繼續(xù)表明你對(duì)他們感興趣。

Ultimately, people will remember not what you did or what you said, but how you made them feel.

最終，人們會(huì)記住的不是你做了什么或說(shuō)了什么，而是你給他們的感覺(jué)。

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