怎樣和你不喜歡的人一起工作

      Engage

　　吸引注意

　　To engage in this case means to communicate with them. Step out of your own ego to get yourself to sincerely talk to them. You may be pleasantly surprised that the other person wants to talk too.To engage also means not to hold any grudges against the other person. Face the issue with the other party and discuss whatever challenges you may have candidly. Say what you mean politely. You can be stern but do not be rude. The important thing about how to work with people you don’t like is to be sincere about it.

　　吸引注意在這種情況下意味著與他們交流。你要放下自尊，真誠(chéng)地與他們交談。很可能你會(huì)喜悅地發(fā)現(xiàn)別人也想與你聊天。吸引注意同時(shí)還意味著你不能抱有怨恨他人的想法。與對(duì)方一起直面這個(gè)問(wèn)題，坦率地討論你可能懷有的質(zhì)疑，婉轉(zhuǎn)地說(shuō)出你想表達(dá)的意思。你可以嚴(yán)肅， 但絕不可以粗魯。與不喜歡的人共事，重要的一點(diǎn)是態(tài)度要真誠(chéng)。

　　When you are sincere,you are seeking a win-win situation. Think about this, when you engage this person,being sincere is also a transfer of feelings, which means you want the other person to know that you genuinely want tosettle any animosity you have with each other. It helps you in the long run too.

　　當(dāng)你的態(tài)度真誠(chéng)時(shí)，你是在尋求一種雙贏的局面。想想看， 當(dāng)你吸引了這個(gè)人的注意時(shí)，真誠(chéng)也會(huì)讓你的態(tài)度感染對(duì)方。它意味著你想讓對(duì)方知道你真的想消除你們之間存在的任何敵意。這個(gè)方法從長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)來(lái)看也是有利于你的。