致失戀的朋友

愛一個人不總意味著占有，有時也意味著你必須放手;

放棄并不意味著軟弱，有時也意味著你足夠堅強繼續(xù)走。

It takes some of us a long time to recover from a broken heart. The first person you fall in love with is often not the right person, but is usually the most difficult to recover from. I understand how when the failure of love happen to us, our entire impression of the love can change. For this reason I think it is most important that you keep your positive outlook. Take some comfort in the thought that thousands of people are in the same boat with you every day, and you will live through it and you will be a better person for having done so.

對一些人來說，從失戀陰影中走出來需要相當一段時間。你第一個愛上的人常常是不適合你的人，但通常是最讓你難以從失戀中走出來的人。我完全理解當失戀發(fā)身在我們身上時我們對愛的認識會發(fā)生改變。所以我想最重要的是要保持積極樂觀的態(tài)度。要自我安慰一下，告訴自己每天有很多人和你同病相憐，同時相信自己會挺過去的，相信你會因為經歷了這段感情而更加成熟。

Forget about the past and set some new dreams for the future. The best way to recover from a broken heart is to get busy. Work hard, get involved in as many things as possible and try to make some new friends. You are still young and you have plenty of time to meet the right person. Don't give up hope; just put your energy into achieving the other things you want from life. The person whose heart gets broken in a romance is usually the one who bounces back the best, and in most cases is the one who will do something successful in the other areas of life. You will benefit from this experience in the end.

要學會忘掉過去，重塑夢想。從失戀中走出來的最好辦法就是讓自己忙碌起來。這個時候要努力工作，多去參與一些事情，同時要多交一些新朋友。你還年輕，有足夠的時間碰到合適的人。不要放棄希望，多花精力去實現(xiàn)自己真正想要的目標。失戀的人最容易卷土重來，在大多數情況下會在其它方面取得成功。你最終會從失戀經歷中獲益。