1. For whom are you deciding?
你到底為誰(shuí)而做的決定?
Does the decision affect just you, or are there others involved? Will this decision be made individually, or as a group?
2. Pick one: heart or mind.
聽從自己的內(nèi)心,從中選擇一個(gè)
A big source of indecision is the pull between the emotional/subjective, and the logical/objective. Decide whether this is a "heart" decision or a "head" decision, and don't let the other part of you have a vote.
3. Get input.
獲得信息
Gather what information your time and resources allow. Talk to other people. Usually you will quickly see which outcome you want or need.
4. Flip a coin.
拋硬幣來決定
If it's truly 50-50, and you need to make up your mind quickly, it's okay. All things being equal, the simplest solution is the best.
5. Accept that there are no perfect decisions.
接受“沒有完美的決定” 這一事實(shí)
It's okay to mess up, or to choose a decision with consequences. The important thing is to choose. Decide ahead of time to adapt to the outcome and enjoy your decision, whatever it may be.