難得糊涂（雙語）

人一生，短短數(shù)載，不夠時間計較，不夠時間事事明細，不必在思前想后中耗磨時間，懂得享樂，人生貴在糊涂。

We all, at one time or another, have pretended to be a rock star, singing and dancing along to our favorite song. Most of us have done this in the privacy of our own room when we were kids and as adults, in the privacy of our homes.

我們每個人，在不同時期，都曾經(jīng)像一個搖滾歌星那樣，伴著我們最愛的那首歌又唱又跳.很多人在小時候，甚至是已長大成人，都曾在我們自己房間和家里這樣的隱秘空間里這樣做過。

The definition for the word silly, according to the dictionary is: stupid, foolish and nonsensical. I know many people do not want to look foolish. So they walk around all serious, which in all honesty, is foolish!

糊涂一詞在字典中的定義是：愚蠢的，傻，荒謬的。我知道很多人都不想被人看作愚笨。所以他們在生活中始終一臉嚴肅，而這在本質(zhì)上才是真正的愚笨。

No one is perfect, no matter how he is educated, how thin, how beautiful, how simple, how frugal, how rich, and so on… No one is perfect! So why pretend to be something you are not?

人無完人，不管一個人學識多深，身材多好，外表多美，思想多淺薄，生活多儉樸，多富有，等等……人無完人!那么，為什么要偽裝成我們實際上本不是的呢?

When we were kids, we had no idea of what limitations were and we had no care in the world so we could do things without worrying about how we appeared to others. However, as we grew up, we lost that childlike innocence.

當我們還是孩子，我們天不怕，地不怕，無憂無慮，所以我們可以不在乎自己再別人眼中的形象去做事情。然而，當我們長大，我們失去了那種天真爛漫。

So don't lose the child that still lives within you. The next time you feel down, go turn on your favorite song, and sing and dance along like there is no tomorrow. Or watch something that makes you laugh. Laughter is the best medicine to whatever ails you and nothing is better than laughing so hard that your tummy hurts.

所以，不要丟失你心中那個小孩。下次你感到沮喪時，去打開你最愛的那首歌吧，隨之歌唱起舞，就像沒有明天一樣?；蛘呖袋c能讓你笑的東西。笑聲是除去任何煩惱良方，沒有什么比笑到肚子疼更好的事了。

we invest money, time or effort in a relationship, business or job. and even though it's been a long time, bitter experience tells us it won't work, and we know there's no more hope that things will change in the future - this we definitely know by intuition - we still continue just because we've invested money, time, effort and love into it. if so, we're kaput in the brain. We have suffered so much but couldn't stop because we didn't want to waste the money

有時候我們在某些感情或事業(yè)工作上，投入了金錢、時間和心力，經(jīng)過長期的經(jīng)營之后，我們從慘痛的經(jīng)驗中知道行不通，直覺也很清楚未來不會有任何轉(zhuǎn)機，但我們還是舍不得放棄，因為已經(jīng)投入了金錢、時間、心力和感情在里面。像這種情形，表示說我們頭腦壞掉，我們明明已經(jīng)那么痛苦了，還是不肯停止，只因為不想白白浪費已經(jīng)付出的錢。

Life is so short… You never know when this beautiful journey will be over, so why waste a single second on being so full of rigidity?

人生何其短暫……你不會知道這美好的征程何時會結束，那么，為什么要浪費一分一秒，讓自己變得棱角分明?

So even if you've lost something, let it go and move on. that's better than continuing to lose.

就算你會有所損失，還是要放下，然后繼續(xù)前進!這樣總比一直損失下去來得好。