跟外國(guó)人學(xué)習(xí)愛(ài)情保鮮

1. Always be faithful: always be faithful to one another. When you get married you commit to devoting your life to that person and even when the times are tough, don’t believe that the grass is greener...because it isn’t.

1.永遠(yuǎn)忠貞：對(duì)另一半永遠(yuǎn)忠貞。一旦結(jié)婚，你就把生命都交付給那個(gè)人，無(wú)論遇到什么樣困難境地，都不要這山望著那山高，因?yàn)樽詈玫木驮谀闵磉叀?/p>

2. Look after each other as best you can: if you want to grow old with your partner you have to make sure you always look after each other in every shape and form. Whether it is making a meal, holding your partners hand when crossing the road or being a shoulder to cry on when something goes wrong.

2.給予對(duì)方無(wú)微不至的照顧：如果你想和另一半白頭到老，就施以無(wú)微不至的關(guān)懷吧。無(wú)論是做一頓飯還是過(guò)馬路時(shí)牽著對(duì)方的手，或是遇到困難的時(shí)候成為一個(gè)頂梁柱。

3. Be tolerant of each other: everyone has bad habits or annoying traits. Whether it is leaving a towel on the floor or listening to the radio too loudly, you have to tolerate each other and realise that no one is perfect. Of course we irritate each other occasionally, but if you want to last nearly 90 years, learn to love bad habits or it won’t work.

3.學(xué)會(huì)包容：每個(gè)人都有壞習(xí)慣。無(wú)論是把毛巾放在地上還是開(kāi)很大聲音聽(tīng)廣播，你都需要包容對(duì)方，意識(shí)到人無(wú)完人。我們時(shí)不時(shí)會(huì)厭惡對(duì)方，但如果你想要婚姻持續(xù)90年，學(xué)著去愛(ài)那些壞習(xí)慣吧。

4. Listen to each other: the most important thing in a relationship is to listen. People don’t listen anymore because they are too busy with work and TV. Listen to your loved ones’ problems and concerns every day, because then you can help them overcome them and be happier. Also, it brings you closer together because you are the first port of call for each other when there is an issue in your life.

4.學(xué)會(huì)傾聽(tīng)：婚姻中最重要的就是傾聽(tīng)。隨著工作越來(lái)越忙碌，人們更愿意花時(shí)間看電視而不是傾聽(tīng)對(duì)方。聽(tīng)聽(tīng)你愛(ài)人每天遇到的麻煩和擔(dān)憂，幫助他們?nèi)ソ鉀Q，使他們更開(kāi)心。這也會(huì)讓你與他的距離更近，因?yàn)楫?dāng)生活有麻煩時(shí)，你才是他的港灣。

5. Follow social and religious values: always make sure you follow social or religious values. Respect, care, cherish, love and value your partner – always treat them how you would want to be treated yourself.

5.別忘了社會(huì)和宗教美德：要尊敬、關(guān)心、珍惜、愛(ài)護(hù)和重視你的另一半-想他們?cè)趺磳?duì)待你，就先學(xué)會(huì)如何這樣對(duì)待他們。