為什么要一直做自己?

你為什么要一直做自己?

Because you will:

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1.Live in alignment with your values and beliefs. Being yourself is all about knowing what you believe in and the values that you live by. When you are not yourself, you will take on the values and beliefs of others. This is when you start conforming to other people’s expectations and way of thinking. When you know your values and why you do what you do, you will live according to your own values and beliefs.

按照你的價(jià)值觀和信仰生活。做你自己就是要知道你的信仰和你賴以生存的價(jià)值觀。當(dāng)你不是自己的時(shí)候，就會接受別人的價(jià)值觀和信仰。這是你開始遵從別人的期望和思維方式的時(shí)候，當(dāng)你知道你的價(jià)值觀以及你為什么要做你所做的事情時(shí)，你就會按照你自己的價(jià)值觀和信仰生活。

2.Establish your own identity. When you are able to have a solid foundation of being you, you are establishing your own sense of identity. No matter what happens in your life, you will always know who you are. There will be times where you may feel lost or distracted, but if you have your own identity you’ll be able to get back on the right path. Without establishing your own identity, you may easily conform and lose yourself.

建立自我認(rèn)同。當(dāng)你有了成為自己的堅(jiān)實(shí)基礎(chǔ)，你就建立了自己的認(rèn)同感。無論你的生活中發(fā)生了什么，你總是知道你是誰。有時(shí)你可能會感到迷失或心煩意亂，但如果你有自己的認(rèn)同感，你就能回到正確的道路上。反之，你很容易隨波逐流，迷失自我。

3.Build courage. It takes a great amount of courage when you decide to take the path that goes against the crowd. The reason why the majority of people take the broad path is because it’s easy. It’s easy to just follow the crowd. It’s more of a challenge when you stay true to yourself and establish your own identity. This challenge of always being yourself takes courage and inner strength. No matter what comes your way, you’ll know how to handle it.

建立勇氣。當(dāng)你決定走與大眾背道而馳的道路時(shí)，你需要很大的勇氣。大多數(shù)人選擇這條路的原因是因?yàn)樗芎唵?，因?yàn)殡S波逐流很容易。更大的挑戰(zhàn)是保持真實(shí)的自我，建立自己的認(rèn)同感。這種挑戰(zhàn)需要勇氣和內(nèi)在的力量。不管發(fā)生什么事，你都知道如何處理。

4. Establish boundaries. When you are always yourself, you know what your limits are and the boundaries that you have set for yourself. When people cross your boundaries, you will know. But if you don’t establish boundaries, people may very well walk all over you and take advantage of you. If you are always yourself and you establish boundaries, you are more likely to be aware when people start taking advantage of you.

建立邊界。當(dāng)你總是做你自己的時(shí)候，你知道你的極限是什么，你為自己設(shè)定的界限是什么。當(dāng)人們跨越你的界限時(shí)，你就會知道。但是如果你不設(shè)立界限，人們很可能會踩著你走，占你的便宜。如果你總是做你自己，建立了界限，當(dāng)人們開始利用你時(shí)，你更有可能意識到。

5. Find focus and direction. When you are always yourself, you are more likely to have focus and direction in your life. Imagine someone who is constantly conforming to other people’s expectations. Do you think this person has focus and direction? I don’t think so. When you stay true to who you are, you are more likely to know the goals you want to accomplish and how to go about accomplishing them. You are able to stay focused and know which direction to take in order for you to accomplish your goals.

找到重點(diǎn)和方向。當(dāng)你總是做自己的時(shí)候，你更有可能在你的生活中有重點(diǎn)和方向。想象一下，一個(gè)人總是符合別人的期望，你認(rèn)為這個(gè)人有重點(diǎn)和方向嗎?我不這么認(rèn)為。當(dāng)你做真實(shí)的自己時(shí)，你更有可能知道你想要實(shí)現(xiàn)的目標(biāo)以及如何去實(shí)現(xiàn)它們。你能夠保持專注，知道為了實(shí)現(xiàn)你的目標(biāo)應(yīng)該朝哪個(gè)方向走。

No matter what you experience in life, the only person that will always remain constant is you.

無論你在生活中經(jīng)歷了什么，唯一能保持不變的人就是你自己。