多虧了中國(guó)式相親價(jià)目表 老外都知道“勢(shì)利眼”長(zhǎng)啥樣啦

最近，一份從北京各個(gè)公園相親角新鮮出爐的中國(guó)式相親價(jià)目表刷爆了朋友圈。它告訴我們一些相親市場(chǎng)上殘酷的現(xiàn)實(shí)：門當(dāng)戶對(duì)是鐵律。京籍、未婚、有房、經(jīng)濟(jì)條件好成了相親市場(chǎng)的標(biāo)配。

不少大爺大媽認(rèn)為屬羊的人命不好，不是中途喪偶，就是沒兒沒女，即便其他條件再合適，只要屬羊，也一律不考慮。

還有人表示：只要相親對(duì)象有北京戶口，就算輕度殘疾也有人能接受。

還有人分享了自己遇到的奇葩相親條件：

 

這些“喪心病狂”的擇偶標(biāo)準(zhǔn)讓人哭笑不得，簡(jiǎn)直把婚姻當(dāng)成赤裸裸的交易。網(wǎng)友們?cè)诳吹礁鞣N相親價(jià)目表后感嘆：世上還有真愛嗎?

 

 

 

真愛當(dāng)然存在，但是通過(guò)這樣的方式找到真愛的幾率有多大就很難說(shuō)了。如此“物化”的中國(guó)式相親條件不僅在國(guó)內(nèi)引發(fā)熱議，也受到外媒的關(guān)注。

英國(guó)廣播公司(BBC)發(fā)表了一篇報(bào)道，題目為：《中國(guó)網(wǎng)友諷刺北京人“勢(shì)利”的相親條件》(Chinese web users poke fun at 'snobbish' Beijing dating requirements)，一起來(lái)看看文章怎么說(shuō)!

An article in the magazine Phoenix Weekly on what Beijing people look for in China's "marriage markets" often arranged in parks has caught people's attention.

中國(guó)公園里有很多“相親市場(chǎng)”，而《鳳凰周刊》關(guān)于相親市場(chǎng)里北京人相親條件的報(bào)道引起了公眾的注意。

It is customary for some elderly relatives to meet in parks around China and to help their sons and daughters find matches. The piece interviews parents about what their children require in a match and some of the answers are very specific.

有些老年人會(huì)聚集在中國(guó)各地的公園里，幫兒女找對(duì)象，這是中國(guó)的風(fēng)俗。這篇報(bào)道采訪了父母給子女找對(duì)象的要求，有些回答非常具體。

"No people whose Chinese Zodiac is a sheep," says one. Those born in the year of the sheep are frowned upon by matchmakers, as they are perceived as meaning a lifetime of bad luck.

有人說(shuō)：“屬羊的一律不考慮。”介紹人們很嫌棄羊年出生的人，認(rèn)為他們的命不太好。

One woman with the surname Li, advertising her 33-year-old son in a Beijing park, says her son "will not consider someone who does not have a Beijing hukou." A Hukou is a household registration document.

李女士在北京一座公園里為33歲的兒子征婚，她稱，自己的兒子“不會(huì)考慮沒有北京戶口的女孩兒”。戶口是一種戶籍證件。

Phoenix Weekly said parents seeking matches for children from outside of Beijing encountered great difficulty in the city's markets.

《鳳凰周刊》表示，為子女找對(duì)象的外地人在北京相親市場(chǎng)上遇到了很大的困難。

Thousands of users are commenting about the story and say they feel sorry for those born in the year of the sheep, and question the snobbishness of Beijing people.

許多網(wǎng)友在文章下留言，稱他們很同情羊年出生的人，還對(duì)北京人的勢(shì)利眼表示質(zhì)疑。

"My mother is a sheep, my girlfriend is also a sheep... this superstition is nonsense, sheep have the best temperament," writes one user.

一位網(wǎng)友寫道：“我媽媽就是屬羊的，我女友也是……這些迷信就是無(wú)稽之談，屬羊的人脾氣最好了。”

One single man joked: "I am a cow, you can come and eat grass with me."

另一位單身男士則戲稱：“我是屬牛的，你可以和我一起來(lái)吃草。”

There are long-standing tensions around the perception that inhabitants of the capital city are generally favored over those from the regions.

長(zhǎng)期以來(lái)，北京人比其他地區(qū)的居民普遍更受青睞的觀念一直備受爭(zhēng)議。

"What's up with the Beijing people? Are they on a higher plane?" one user asks. Another says "this is very snobbish."

一位網(wǎng)友質(zhì)問道：“北京人怎么了?北京人高人一等?”。另一位網(wǎng)友則稱：“真是太勢(shì)利了。”