研究：“媽寶男”和“爸寶女”心理更健康

對(duì)于和父母關(guān)系十分親密的“媽寶男”和“爸寶女”，網(wǎng)上有頗多爭(zhēng)議。有人認(rèn)為他們不夠獨(dú)立，或者父母對(duì)他們過(guò)于溺愛(ài)。但一項(xiàng)最新研究顯示，“媽寶男”和“爸寶女”心理更健康。

They may be the stereotypical butt of jokes. But mummy’s boys are less likely to suffer from poor mental health or unpopularity at school, research suggests.

這聽(tīng)上去像是老套的笑話，但研究顯示，媽寶男不太容易出現(xiàn)心理健康問(wèn)題，而且在學(xué)校人緣也不錯(cuò)。

And the same is true for daddy’s girls, who enjoy a similar lift in their self-esteem and confidence.

爸寶女也是如此。她們的自尊和自信程度也都較高。

The study by the Marriage Foundation concluded that boys and girls who are close to their parent of the opposite sex fare better at coping with teenage life.

美國(guó)婚姻基金會(huì)開(kāi)展的這項(xiàng)研究得出結(jié)論稱(chēng)，與媽媽關(guān)系親密的男孩和與爸爸關(guān)系親密的女孩更適應(yīng)青春期。

Boys deemed ‘extremely close’ to their mothers at 14 are 41 percent less likely to have mental health problems, the research found.

研究發(fā)現(xiàn)，被認(rèn)為與媽媽“非常親近”的14歲男孩出現(xiàn)心理健康問(wèn)題的幾率會(huì)降低41%。

And girls close to their fathers are 44 percent less likely to suffer emotional problems or have trouble with their peers.

與父親關(guān)系親近的女孩出現(xiàn)情緒問(wèn)題或與同齡人交流問(wèn)題的幾率要低44%。

While boys are happier when their parents are married, girls are more reassured by their parents demonstrating a high-quality relationship.

在父母婚姻關(guān)系存續(xù)期間，男孩生活得更加開(kāi)心，而女孩更容易因?yàn)楦改副憩F(xiàn)出的高質(zhì)量情感關(guān)系而感到更加安心。

The analysis, which uses Millennium Cohort Study data from 11,000 mothers, found that the biggest factor affecting teenage mental health was family breakdown.

這項(xiàng)分析使用了千禧世代研究中來(lái)自1.1萬(wàn)名母親的數(shù)據(jù)。結(jié)果發(fā)現(xiàn)，影響青少年心理健康的最大因素是家庭破裂。

Harry Benson, research director of Marriage Foundation, who co-authored the study with Professor Steve McKay from the University of Lincoln, said: ‘Our analysis shows once again that family breakdown remains the number one driver of teenage mental health problems.

婚姻基金會(huì)的研究主管哈里-本森說(shuō)：“我們的分析再次顯示，家庭破裂對(duì)青少年心理健康影響最大。”他和林肯大學(xué)的史蒂夫-麥凱教授共同撰寫(xiě)了這份研究報(bào)告。

‘Our really interesting new finding is that boys and girls are especially influenced by their relationship with the opposite sex parent.

“我們真正有趣的新發(fā)現(xiàn)是，男孩受媽媽影響大，女孩受爸爸影響大。”

‘Boys who are close to their mum tend to have better mental health, as do girls who are close to their dad.

“和媽媽關(guān)系親密的男孩以及和爸爸親密的女孩心理更健康。”

‘The fact that these links only apply to one parent and not both suggests that it’s the closeness with parents that affects the child’s mental health and not the other way around.

“這種關(guān)系只體現(xiàn)在父母中的一方，而不是雙方，這表明是孩子與父母的親密關(guān)系在影響著孩子的心理狀況，而不是孩子的心理狀況在影響其與父母的關(guān)系。”

Sir Paul Coleridge, chairman of Marriage Foundation, said: ‘“Mummy’s boys” and “daddy’s girls” have been known about for generations as something of a stereotypical joke.

婚姻基金會(huì)主席保羅-科爾里奇爵士說(shuō)：“長(zhǎng)久以來(lái)，‘媽寶男’和‘爸寶女’總是受人嘲笑。”

‘But it seems that once again research supports anecdotal experience. Girls and boys, as they develop, do indeed have differing emotional needs and expectations and do best when these needs are satisfied.

“但似乎這項(xiàng)研究再次支持了個(gè)別經(jīng)驗(yàn)。隨著女孩和男孩的成長(zhǎng)，他們的情感需求和期望不同，當(dāng)他們的需求得到滿足時(shí)，他們的表現(xiàn)最好。”

‘A strong relationship with the parent of the opposite sex boosts self-esteem and peer group relationship skills – both of which support sound mental health.

“母子以及父女之間的親密關(guān)系可以提升孩子的自尊心，提高他們與同齡人的相處能力，這都有助于心理健康。”

‘Obviously in families that remain together, not only is the trauma of family break-up averted, but also children have a far better chance of maintaining appropriately strong relationship with both parents.’

“顯然，完整的家庭不僅避免了家庭破裂帶來(lái)的創(chuàng)傷，而且孩子也有更好的機(jī)會(huì)與父母保持適當(dāng)?shù)挠H密關(guān)系。”