第一步,在不認(rèn)識(shí)的情況下,貿(mào)然前去說話給人的感覺肯定不禮貌,我們?nèi)绾巫匀坏拈_始聊天呢?為了避免尷尬,我們可以在很自然地問一些日常問題,不一定真的需要確切的回答,目的就是開始聊天,例如:
Excuse me, is this seat taken?
打擾下,請(qǐng)問這個(gè)位置有人嗎?
Can I ask your opinion about something?
能問問您關(guān)于……的意見嗎?
Can you help me find this book?
你能幫我找到這本書嗎?
I lost my number, can I have yours?
我把我的電話號(hào)碼弄丟了,你可以把你的告訴我嗎?
Are we in the same class by any chance? Professor Smith right?
我們是不是選同一門課,是不是史密斯教授的課?
Could you tell me where the nearest subway is?
請(qǐng)問最近的地鐵在哪里?
Don’t you find this place cool?
你不覺得這個(gè)地方很酷嗎?
Hi, do you mind taking a picture for me?
嗨!能麻煩你幫我拍張照嗎?
Hi, man. I ordered a sandwich. It's quite a lot. You wanna share?
我點(diǎn)了三明治,但實(shí)在太大了我吃不下,你要不要一起用?
又或者,直接表達(dá)你對(duì)這個(gè)人的興趣:
How can I get in touch with you?
我怎么能聯(lián)系到你?
Can I get your WeChat? I want to hang out sometime.
能把你的微信給我嗎? 想約你一起出去。
Do you wanna, maybe, get a drink some time?
有時(shí)間一起出去喝點(diǎn)東西啊!
We should go have a drink and get to know each other.
我們必須去喝一杯來更加了解彼此。
You look like someone I know. Haven't we met before?
你跟我一個(gè)朋友長得好象。我們之前見過吧?
I just thought you should know that you have a really nice smile. I bet you hear that a lot, huh?
我覺得應(yīng)該告訴你,你的笑容真是太美了。你肯定聽過很多人夸你吧!
Are you seeing anybody lately?
你最近有和誰約會(huì)嗎?
第二步,有了認(rèn)識(shí)的外國朋友,想練口語,又不知道說什么話題,我們可以先從問好開始:
How's life?
最近怎么樣?
How's your business?
生意如何嗎?
How was your morning?
今天早上過得好嗎?
How was your weekend?
周末過得怎樣?
How have you been?
你過得怎么樣?
How have you been doing?
最近怎么樣?
How have you been getting along?
近來過得怎樣?
How goes the world with you?
近況如何?
What's new?
有什么新鮮事?
What's new with you?
有什么新鮮事?
What's new in your life?
有什么新鮮事?
What are you doing these days?
這些日子在忙什么?
What are you up to these days?
你最近在忙什么?
What have you been up to?
你最近在忙什么?
第三步,我們可以用夸獎(jiǎng)對(duì)方的方式來進(jìn)行愉快的交流:
I like your nail color. It matches with your lips.
我喜歡你的指甲油顏色,和你的嘴唇很配。
You look radiant.
你看起來很精神。
You're in the pink!
你氣色真好!
You look better than ever.
你看起來比以前更好了。
You're keeping well.
你最近看起來很好哦!
學(xué)會(huì)以上搭訕三部曲,你就可以有機(jī)會(huì)接觸到所有的人,大大方方的走到每個(gè)人面前開啟一段聊天,這樣表現(xiàn)的既體貼又自然,并且說不定你的好運(yùn)也就就此開始!