每個(gè)人的際遇各有不同,機(jī)運(yùn)好的可施展拖負(fù),機(jī)運(yùn)壞將可能一事無(wú)成,自己又如何能要求機(jī)運(yùn)的特別待遇呢?自己的情緒有好有壞,有穩(wěn)定也有浮躁的時(shí)候,自己又如何能要求別人事事都順從你的意愿呢?假如自己能平心 靜氣來(lái)對(duì)照觀察,也就是設(shè)身處地反躬自問(wèn),這是領(lǐng)悟人生的一個(gè)最好途徑。
《菜根譚·相觀對(duì)治 方便法門(mén)》 洪應(yīng)明
人之際遇,有齊有不齊,而能使己獨(dú)齊乎?己之情理,有順有不順,而能使人皆順乎?以此相觀對(duì)治,亦是一方便法門(mén)。
Every man has his own life experiences. With some, it is always plain sailing, while others encounter many hardships and failures. How can a person ensure that he alone will always be successful? Every man feels differently at different times. How can one expect others to be always in a good mood? This reasoning can be regarded as a convenient method for enlightening people.