怎樣與人溝通 How to communicate with others

Communication is common and important in our daily life. All of us live with others in the society and no one can live cut off from it. Everyday, we must talk to others to give and get information, but how can we communicate with others? Some people claim that they don't know what to say and how to speak to others, strangers especially. I think first you should find a topic that both of you are interested in. Then, pay attention to your manners, speed, pitch, expressions and your body language. You should make others feel comfortable, so that they are willing to talk to you. Last but not the least, being a good listener. Listening to others shows your respect to them. Only when they heard, they want to talk. So do you. Before you talk, listening to others first.

交流在我們的日常生活中是非常常見和重要的。我們所有的人生活在社會(huì)中的其他人，沒有一個(gè)人可以離開它。我們每天必須說話，對(duì)別人給予和獲取信息，但我們?nèi)绾闻c他人溝通?有些人聲稱，他們不知道該說什么，如何說給別人，特別是陌生人。我覺得首先你應(yīng)該找到一個(gè)你感興趣的主題，然后，要注意你的態(tài)度，速度，音調(diào)，表情和身體語言。你應(yīng)該讓別人感到舒服，使他們?cè)敢夂湍阏務(wù)?。最后，但并非最不重要的，是一個(gè)很好的聽眾。聽別人表示尊重對(duì)方。只有當(dāng)他們聽到，他們想談?wù)?。你也一樣。在你說話之前，聽人第一。