快要結(jié)婚了，心情卻焦慮不安該怎么辦

 
快要結(jié)婚了，心情卻焦慮不安該怎么辦
 
來聽今天的講解:
 
A: Man, I'm freaking out. You gotta help me.
 
兄弟，我現(xiàn)在焦慮不安，你要幫幫我。
 
B: Whoa, whoa, take it easy, relax. Geez, you're sweating like a pig. What's going on?
 
哇哦哇哦，放松點(diǎn)兒。天吶，你汗流浹背，發(fā)生什么事情了？
 
A: I can't go through with this. I just can't....I'm not ready for marriage. What was I thinking? I'm only 35 years old. I've got my entire life ahead of me, adventures waiting. I can't settle down yet.
 
我沒辦法這么做。我真的不能，我還沒準(zhǔn)備好要結(jié)婚。我當(dāng)時(shí)在想什么？我才35歲，我的整個(gè)人生都擺在我面前，那些冒險(xiǎn)還在等著我，我還不能安定下來。
 
B: What are you talking about? It wasn't more than a month ago that you were rambling on about how you're tired of living the life of a bachelor and how you envy your friends that have a family.
 
你在說什么？不到一個(gè)月前，你還在說你有多么厭倦單身的生活，多么羨慕那些有家庭的朋友。
 
A: I know, I know.
 
我知道，我知道。
 
B: Let's think this through. First of all, you cannot leave Amy at the alter. Not only will she be humiliated and kill you, but she's a woman that you love and woman of your dreams. Why would you want to end that or jeopardize it like this? Second of all, you are just getting cold feet. You know deep down inside that you want to marry her, so cut the crap and do it.
 
我們?cè)俸煤孟胂脒@個(gè)事情。首先，你不能讓艾米留在婚禮上。不只是因?yàn)樗龝?huì)蒙羞，然后想殺了你。而是她是你愛的女人，也是你夢(mèng)中的女孩。為什么你會(huì)想就這么結(jié)束它或者毀滅它呢？第二，你只是臨陣退縮了，在你心里，你深深的知道你想娶她。所以廢話少說，去吧。
 
A: You're right. I'm being crazy. Okay, I'm ready. Let's do this.
 
你說的對(duì)，我瘋了。好了，我準(zhǔn)備好了，我們開始吧。
 
B: Great. Phew. That was a close one. You had me going there for a minute, I thought I was gonna have to slap some sense into you.
 
太好了，松了一口氣。太險(xiǎn)了。你剛剛要是讓我等一會(huì)，我想我會(huì)給你一巴掌打醒你。