The way people hold to the belief that a fun filled, painfree life equals happiness actually reduces their chances of ever attaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equal to happiness then pain must be equal to unhappiness. But in fact, the opposite is true: more often than not things that lead to happiness involves some pain.
As a result, many people avoid the very attempts that are the source of true happiness. They fear the pain inevitably brought by such things as marriage, raising children, professional achievement, religious commitment(承擔(dān)的義務(wù)), self improvement.
Ask a bachelor(單身漢)why he resists marriage even though he finds dating to be less and less satisfying. If he is honest he will tell you that he is afraid of making a commitment. For commitment is in fact quite painful. The single life is filled with fun, adventure, excitement. Marriage has such moments, but they are not its most distinguishing features.
Couples with infant children are lucky to get a whole night's sleep or a three-day vacation. I don't know any parent who would choose the word fun to describe raising children. But couple who decide not to have children never know the joys of watching a child grow up or of playing with a grandchild.
Understanding and accepting that true happiness has nothing to do with fun is one of the most liberating realizations. It liberates time: now we can devote more hours to activities that can genuinely increase our happiness. It liberates money: buying that new car or those fancy clothes that will do nothing to increase our happiness now seems pointless. And it liberates us from envy: we now understand that all those who are always having so much fun actually may not be happy at all.
1.According to the author, a bachelor resists marriage chiefly because _______.
A.he is reluctant to take on family responsibilities
B.he believes that life will be more cheerful if he remains single
C.he finds more fun in dating than in marriage
D.he fears it will put an end to all his fun adventure and excitement
2.Raising children, in the author's opinion, is _______.
A.a moral duty B.a thankless job
C.a rewarding task D.a source of inevitable pain
3.From the last paragraph, we learn that envy sometimes stems from _______.
A.hatred B.misunderstanding C.prejudice D.ignorance
4.To understand what true happiness is one must _______.
A.have as much fun as possible during one's lifetime
B.make every effort to liberate oneself from pain
C.put up with pain under all circumstances
D.be able to distinguish happiness from fun
5.What is the author trying to tell us?
A.Happiness often goes hand in hand with pain. B.One must know how to attain happiness.
C.It is important to make commitments. D.It is pain that leads to happiness.
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1.【答案】A。
【解析】參見文章第三段第一至二行。
2.【答案】C。
【解析】根據(jù)文章第四段開頭讀者似乎會(huì)認(rèn)為作者的意圖是B項(xiàng)“出力不討好,毫無(wú)回報(bào)的事”,而實(shí)際上,作者的真實(shí)想法應(yīng)在But之后的句中體現(xiàn)。
3.【答案】B。
【解析】依據(jù)文章最后一段第四行說(shuō)明:我們現(xiàn)在這樣理解就可免除妒忌,那么反過(guò)來(lái),妒忌產(chǎn)生于我們的理解不當(dāng),即misunderstanding。
4.【答案】D。
【解析】依據(jù)文章第一段第一至二行,再依據(jù)文章最后一段最后一句可以看出要理解真正的幸福是什么就必須把fun和happiness區(qū)分開來(lái),因?yàn)閮烧呓^不等同。C項(xiàng)應(yīng)該是回答“怎樣才能獲得真正的幸福?”這一問(wèn)題的。
5.【答案】A。
【解析】作者的意圖出現(xiàn)在第一段第三行。
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