將你約會(huì)之夜的點(diǎn)子存起來

We all want our boyfriends to come up with the ultimate date night. Unfortunately, they aren’t always super imaginative and what they consider a great date night isn’t necessarily what you consider a great date night.

我們都希望自己的男友可以想出美妙的終極約會(huì)之夜。不幸的是，他們并不總是非常有想象力，而且他們認(rèn)為的很美好的約會(huì)之夜并不總是和你所認(rèn)為的相同。

The first thing to do is to have a chat about date nights – what you both consider romantic, as well as things you think would be fun to explore together, be it hiking, or going to a museum. If you don’t know what you like it’s hard to create dates around it.

首先要做的事情就是，雙方要對(duì)約會(huì)之夜談一談自己的想法——你們都認(rèn)為浪漫的事情，以及你們認(rèn)為可以一起探索的有趣的事情，無論是徒步旅行，還是去博物館。如果你不知道自己喜歡什么，那就很難創(chuàng)造出美妙的約會(huì)之夜。

Secondly, you can start alternating with who comes up with what to do for the date.

其次，你們可以開始輪流來想約會(huì)所做的事情的點(diǎn)子。

Day-to-day life can make it hard to go on elaborate dates, so most weeks you might opt for dinner at home, a restaurant, or a movie, but decide that once every other week, or once a month one of you comes up with something more lavish, be it a weekend away, a fun activity in the city, or something very special at home, like a spa night where you pamper each other, or one of you gets pampered by the other.

一天又一天的生活讓我們很難總是進(jìn)行很精致的約會(huì)，所以大多數(shù)的日子你或許會(huì)選擇在家吃晚飯，去飯店，或者看電影，但是要每周一次或者每月一次來決定去做一些更奢華的事情，無論是周末旅行，在城市中參加有趣的活動(dòng)，或者在家里做一些非常特殊的事情，比如你們放縱對(duì)方做一個(gè)SPA，或者你們其中一個(gè)人被對(duì)方縱容一下。

If you want you can also create a date night jar where you put ideas for date nights that you then pull at random, or you have one jar each and pull from each other.

如果你想你也可以制作一個(gè)約會(huì)之夜的罐子，將你約會(huì)之夜的點(diǎn)子放進(jìn)去，然后隨機(jī)抽取一個(gè)，或者你們每個(gè)人都有一個(gè)罐子，互相抽取對(duì)方罐子中的約會(huì)之夜的想法。