“你認(rèn)為每個(gè)人都應(yīng)該知道并遵守的‘不成文規(guī)則’是什么?”

“你認(rèn)為每個(gè)人都應(yīng)該知道并遵守的‘不成文規(guī)則’是什么?”

There are rules, stupid rules, and rules that nobody argues about. Like, the one where you don’t answer out loud if someone whispers to you. Call it common sense, human behavior at its best, or an unwritten rule, that doesn’t change it—you just whisper if someone whispers at you.

有些規(guī)則，愚蠢的規(guī)則，還有沒人會(huì)爭論的規(guī)則。比如，如果有人對你耳語，你也不會(huì)大聲回答。無論是常識、人類行為的最佳表現(xiàn)，還是不成文的規(guī)則，都不會(huì)改變它——如果有人對你小聲說話，你只要小聲說。

So what are these unspoken rules that never get written down and are considered logical arguments or actions? Are they that different when it comes to various people?

那么，這些從未寫下來，卻被認(rèn)為是邏輯論證或行為的潛規(guī)則是什么呢?當(dāng)涉及到不同的人的時(shí)候，它們有那么不同嗎?

A person on r/AskReddit dared to find out as they posted the seemingly simple, yet very illuminating question “What is one 'unwritten rule' you think everyone should know and follow?” 44.7k upvotes and 18.3k comments later, we’ve got some of the most interesting replies. They show some rules worth respecting don’t need to be carved into stone and can perfectly live in the part of the brain where “it’s just like this” is enough to explain why.

r/AskReddit上的一個(gè)人大膽地提出了一個(gè)看似簡單但很有啟發(fā)性的問題:“你認(rèn)為每個(gè)人都應(yīng)該知道和遵循的‘不成文規(guī)則’是什么?”“44.7萬的贊和18.3萬的評論之后，我們得到了一些最有趣的回復(fù)。它們表明了一些值得尊重的規(guī)則，不需要刻在石頭上，它們可以完美地生活在大腦的某個(gè)部分，“就像這樣”就足以解釋為什么了。

#1

Never make fun of someone else's laugh — be it how they sound or how they look. Laughing is the most natural expression of joy and happiness, and for someone to feel self-conscious about that because of other people's comments is so brutal.

永遠(yuǎn)不要取笑別人的笑——無論是他們的聲音還是他們的外表。笑是最自然的表達(dá)快樂和幸福的方式，對于一些人來說，因?yàn)閯e人的評論而感到難為情是很殘酷的。

#2

Don’t put your music on speakers when in a public space. It’s not like everyone wants the same genre or was in the mood for music. Get your headphones.

在公共場所不要開音樂喇叭。并不是每個(gè)人都想要相同的音樂類型或當(dāng)時(shí)的音樂氛圍。戴上你的耳機(jī)。

#3

Be kind to people who are working: food staff, medical staff, etc. Don’t take your bad day out on someone else.

善待正在工作的人:食品人員、醫(yī)務(wù)人員等。不要把你糟糕的一天發(fā)泄在別人身上。

#4

For buses/trains/any other public transportation, let people exit first before you get on.

乘坐公共汽車/火車/其他公共交通工具時(shí)，先讓別人下車再上車。

#5

Don't propose at someone else's wedding.

不要在別人的婚禮上求婚。

#6

If someone does something that makes them happy and confident. If it doesn't hurt them or anyone else, animals included. Then leave them alone, let them do that thing. Let them be happy.

如果有人做了讓他們開心和自信的事。如果這不會(huì)傷害到他們或其他任何人，包括動(dòng)物。那就別管他們，讓他們做那件事。讓他們開心。

#7

Do not swipe left or right if someone shows you a photo on their phone.

當(dāng)別人給你看手機(jī)上的照片時(shí)，不要向左或向右滑動(dòng)。

#8

You can be wrong. It isn't a bad thing, either. And when you are wrong, acknowledge it, and learn from it, you don't need to dig down in your beliefs to try and comfort yourself because you can't handle not being right all the time.

你可能會(huì)錯(cuò)。這也不是一件壞事。當(dāng)你犯錯(cuò)的時(shí)候，承認(rèn)它，并從中吸取教訓(xùn)，你不需要深挖你的信念來嘗試安慰自己，因?yàn)槟悴荒芸偸墙邮苠e(cuò)誤。

#9

There was only 1 rule in my house growing up...do not wake anyone up. My parents worked shift work. Its amaZing to me now how many people don't respect sleep.

在我的家里，從小到大只有一條規(guī)矩……不要叫醒任何人。我的父母是輪班工作。現(xiàn)在有多少人不尊重睡眠，這讓我感到驚訝。

#10

Chew with your mouth closed. Shocks me how many adults i see chewing with their mouth open.

咀嚼時(shí)閉上嘴。讓我震驚的是，我看到有多少成年人張著嘴咀嚼食物。

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