雙語智慧書·何時(shí)把他人的話反過來聽

250．何時(shí)把他人的話反過來聽
　　何時(shí)把他人的話反過來聽？就是在他們散布流言之時(shí)。對(duì)于某些人來說，所有事情都是顛倒的：他們說"是"就是"不"，他們說"不"就是"是"。如果他們批評(píng)某物，其實(shí)就是對(duì)該物作了最高評(píng)價(jià)。他們想得到某些東西，就對(duì)別人貶低那些東西。贊揚(yáng)某物也不一定就是說它好--有些人為了避免表揚(yáng)好的，就去表揚(yáng)壞的。有的人覺得什么都好，其實(shí)說明他覺得什么都不好。


250．When to change the conversation
　When to change the conversation? When they talk scandal. With some all goes contrariwise: their No is Yes, and their Yes No. If they speak ill of a thing it is the highest praise. For what they want for themselves they depreciate to others. To praise a thing is not always to speak well of it, for some, to avoid praising what's good, praise what's bad, and nothing is good for him for whom nothing is bad.