托福閱讀之情商與成功

Researchers have suggested that one's emotional intelligence is a greater indicator of success and satisfaction than his intellectual intelligence contrary to an assumption that people with high IQs are bound to accomplish a lot in life. Psychologists introduced the concepts of emotional intelligence, or IE, in the early 1900s.According to them,emotional intelligence is a person's ability to understand his own emotion and those of includes having motivation and pursuing a goal successfully.
It is generally accepted that the founction for emotional intelligence is built in early childhood and emotional intelligence can be taught and developed.Therefore,no matter what one's innate ability,he can learn skills such as no big difference between men and women on total EQ but usually men tend to be better as stress tolerance and women tend to be better at empathy and interpersonal relationship.
Intellectual intelligence offers virtually no preparation for the problems one can face in the middle of his life.Even though people already know that a high IQ is no guarantee of success,they get used to paying more attention to intellectual intelligence not emotional intelligence.Having a high IQ that is having good memory,does not necessarily mean the person is capable of dealing with emotions.There are people who lack the social skills associated with high emotional intelligence even though thay are very intelligent.IQ is just the indicators of school achievement and educational success.
Low emotional intelligence,however can affect intellectual capabilities.For example,depression exerts influence on one's memory and concentration.Psychological tests have proven that feelings of rejection can dramatically reduce alone does not mean that a person will reach his potential.
Moderate to substantial genetic influence on IQ has also been found through many studies and it is widely recognized that not all individuals are endowed with the dame intelligence,but it should not be ignored that genes interact with the environment.Social factors will surely add to intelligence.One's success is often decided by three factors-experience and training,IQ,and EQ-among which IQ is the least important factor and EQ plays a major role.Especially leadership success is found to be attributable to emotional intelligence.Fortunately while IQ is fixes and static,Eq can be developed and improved throughout life by training ,heightening,and expanding emotional sensitivity and self-awareness.

本文中重難點(diǎn)詞匯詳解：

empathy : n. 神入;移情作用;執(zhí)著

例句：And it all starts, not with aggression and dominance, but with empathy andbonding.
這一過程首先不是基于“進(jìn)攻性和統(tǒng)治性”，而是首先基于“移情和感情連接”。

interpersonal : adj. 人際的;人與人之間的

例句：Since we are social beings, the quality of our lives depends in large measure on ourinterpersonal relationships.
由于我們是社會(huì)動(dòng)物，我們的生活質(zhì)量在很大程度上取決于我們的人際關(guān)系。

concentration : n. 濃度;集中;濃縮;專心;集合

例句：The area has one of the world's greatest concentrations of wildlife.

該地區(qū)有世界上野生生物最集中的區(qū)域之一。
 

Moderate : vt. 節(jié)制;減輕

adj. 穩(wěn)健的，溫和的;適度的，中等的;有節(jié)制的

vi. 變緩和，變?nèi)?/p>

例句：The researchers excluded from the study patients with moderate to severetraumatic brain injury.
研究者從研究中剔除了中度到重度創(chuàng)傷性腦損傷病人。

be bound to : 必然;一定要

例句：Each of the ports on the component will be bound to the appropriate role.
組件上的每一個(gè)端口都將被綁定到適當(dāng)?shù)慕巧?br />
paying more attention to: 更加注意

例句：Many are paying more attention to reducing stress in their lives.

許多人更加注意減少生活中精神緊張的壓力。
 

associated with : 與…有關(guān)系;與…相聯(lián)系

例句：Cigarette smoking has been associated with lung cancer.
肺癌被認(rèn)為與吸煙有關(guān)。

be attributable to : 可歸咎于

例句：This difference could be attributable to differences in carbohydrate type and (or) fatcontent.
這種差別可能歸因于糖的類型和(或者)脂肪含量的不同。