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　　4 Secrets Genuinely Happy People Never Told You

　　Happiness is a choice, and genuinely happy people make the choice to be happy, everyday! But what you may not know is that happy people face challenges, just like ordinary folk, but they challenge themselves, constantly, to live the wonderful life they know they deserve;

　　快樂(lè)是一種選擇，真正快樂(lè)的人選擇每天都快樂(lè)。但是你可能不知道的是快樂(lè)的人也會(huì)遇到問(wèn)題，就像所有的普通人一樣，但是她們會(huì)不斷地挑戰(zhàn)自我，去過(guò)上他們覺(jué)得自己應(yīng)得的幸福生活。

　　1. They’re not happy all the time.

　　他們并不是一直都很快樂(lè)

　　Let’s be honest, nobody is happy all the time, and with good reason. It’s the down that shows us the beauty of the ups. The genuinely happy individual knows this and allows themselves to feel sad or down, naturally. So they embrace the sadness, the tears and the obstacles and give themselves permission to just be. They are human after all.

　　老實(shí)說(shuō)，沒(méi)有人能一直都快樂(lè)，總有一些原因。因?yàn)橛辛舜煺鄄拍茏屛覀儼l(fā)現(xiàn)成功的美好。真正快樂(lè)的人明白這個(gè)道理，也允許自己去悲傷。所以他們接受這種悲傷，這些淚水，這些困難，允許自己去發(fā)泄。他們畢竟也只是普通人。

　　2. They have learned to say no.

　　他們已經(jīng)學(xué)會(huì)了拒絕

　　It sounds strange, but saying “no” doesn’t come easy for some people. However, genuinely happy people don’t buy into the idea of keeping others happy if you’r always down as a result. Instead, they exercise their right to say no, and do so in an assertive manner, that neither takes away from their relationships, or their own happiness.

　　聽(tīng)起來(lái)有些奇怪，但是說(shuō)“不”并不是每個(gè)人都覺(jué)得很容易的。但是如果你最后總是不開(kāi)心，那么真正快樂(lè)的人不會(huì)總考慮這點(diǎn)的。相反，他們學(xué)著使用拒絕的權(quán)利，用一些比較好的方式，既不傷害感情，也不會(huì)犧牲自己的快樂(lè)。

　　3. They love their flaws.

　　他們能包容自己的缺點(diǎn)

　　For them, being perfectly imperfect, is perfect! They’ve come to terms with who they are and have accepted their flaws. They know it is all just a part of what makes them special, and they love it! They understand there is no such thing as perfection!

　　對(duì)于他們來(lái)說(shuō)，不完美才是真正的完美。他們已經(jīng)接受了他們是怎樣的人，已經(jīng)接受了自己的缺點(diǎn)，他們知道正因如此才讓他們變得與眾不同，他們喜歡這樣。他們知道沒(méi)有什么東西是那樣完美的。

　　4. They love to laugh.

　　他們愛(ài)笑

　　The happy person sees the fun, and funny side of life and aims to always look on the bright side. They are truly joyous in laughter and can make even the stony faced individual crack a smile. They know there’s no better healer, along with time, than laughter. It not only lifts their spirits but does a lot to make an otherwise stressful situation easier to manage.

　　快樂(lè)的人總看得見(jiàn)生活中的趣事，有趣的一面，為了總能看見(jiàn)生活中好的一面。他們真的喜歡笑聲，甚至能讓石頭臉露出微笑。他們知道隨著時(shí)間的推移，沒(méi)什么能比笑聲更能治愈人。笑，不僅能振奮精神，還能是原本很棘手的問(wèn)題變得容易。