艾莉森·霍爾克在失戀后“不回避”約會:“愛是我一直相信的東西”

Allison Holker Boss isn't closed off to finding love in the wake of her late husband Stephen "tWitch" Boss' death.
Allison Holker Boss在她已故的丈夫Stephen“tWitch”Boss去世后并沒有關(guān)閉尋找愛情的大門。

On Thursday's episode of Nick Viall's The Viall Files podcast, the So You Think You Can Dance alum, 35, acknowledged that her love life has become a "hot topic" after her husband's death in December 2022.
在周四尼克·維爾的《維爾檔案》播客節(jié)目中，這位35歲的舞林高手承認(rèn)，在她丈夫于2022年12月去世后，她的愛情生活成為了一個“熱門話題”。

As she continued to grieve and work through her emotions, Allison said she needed to "learn to love myself," but also find answers as to whether or not she could "like someone else again."
艾莉森說，當(dāng)她繼續(xù)悲傷，努力克服自己的情緒時，她需要“學(xué)會愛自己”，但也要找到自己是否能“再次喜歡上別人”的答案。

When that question seemed like a real possibility, the professional dancer said she then wondered if she could "love someone else again while I still like someone and love someone else."
當(dāng)這個問題似乎真的有可能出現(xiàn)時，這位職業(yè)舞者說，她想知道她是否能“在我還喜歡一個人、愛著另一個人的時候，再次愛上另一個人”。

"It's a very complex situation I found myself in," she told host Nick Viall, noting that her outlook on life made it harder for her come to terms with moving forward. "It took me a long time to accept all of those things and those complexities of everything. But at the end of the day, I love life. So would I shy away from it?"
“我發(fā)現(xiàn)自己處在一個非常復(fù)雜的境地，”她告訴主持人尼克·維爾，并指出她的人生觀讓她更難接受前進(jìn)。“我花了很長時間才接受所有這些事情以及所有事情的復(fù)雜性。但歸根結(jié)底，我熱愛生活。所以我會回避它嗎?”

Though she isn't actively searching for someone special, Allison explained that she was a "lover of life and experience and adventure."
雖然她并沒有積極尋找特別的人，但艾莉森解釋說她是一個“熱愛生活、體驗(yàn)和冒險的人”。

"I still find that the world is such a beautiful place and there's so much to be experienced. So to what kind of capacity? What that looks like? I don't know. But I'm definitely not shying away from it," she explained. "It's just, life to me is life, and I just think it's here to be experienced."
“我仍然覺得世界是一個美麗的地方，有那么多值得體驗(yàn)的東西。那么要什么樣的容量呢?那是什么樣子的?我不知道。但我絕對不會回避它，”她解釋道。“對我來說，生活就是生活，我只是覺得它是用來體驗(yàn)的。”

"Life and love is just something that I've always believed in," she added.
“生活和愛情是我一直相信的東西，”她補(bǔ)充道。

While Allison doesn't want to close herself off to any possibilities, she confessed she "had so many dark spaces I was in, that I had to be in for so many different reasons, and I had to work through all these different processes of all these different things."
雖然艾莉森不想把自己封閉在任何可能性之外，但她承認(rèn)自己“有很多黑暗的空間，我必須因?yàn)楹芏嗖煌脑蚨M(jìn)入，我必須經(jīng)歷所有這些不同的過程，處理所有這些不同的事情。”

"But, I have," she confirmed. "I've worked through 'em ... you know, we'll see what happens."
“但是，我有，”她肯定地說。“我已經(jīng)熬過了……你知道，我們會看到會發(fā)生什么。”