英語流行話題聽力:Unit62 愛情指南

[00:00.07] Unit 62 Love Guide Are you really in love? [00:06.37] Being in love is a powerful feeling. [00:09.17] The emotions are intense. [00:11.21] It is so exciting that it may be hard to concentrate on school, work, or family responsibilities. [00:19.08] Sometimes people confuse real love with the possessive love seen on TV or in the movies. [00:25.52] They believe that love is only love at first sight. [00:29.25] But real, mature love takes time to develop. [00:33.33] Many teens believe they are in love. [00:36.05] They may be in love in an immature way. [00:39.00] Sometimes teens or adults in love give up all their friends. [00:43.20] They stop doing activities they enjoy. [00:46.29] Some have jealous partners that never let them be alone or with another person. [00:52.21] They are jealous any time their loved one talks to another person. [00:56.55] Others are forced to do things they do not want to do. [01:01.06] There is a saying that" love is blind." What we think is love may distort our ability to see the real relationship. [01:10.06] Mature love lets you be you. [01:13.17] People in mature love have common interests, and are honest with each other. [01:19.02] People who share mature love do not see the other person as the solution to their problems. [01:25.32] They see the other person as a wonderful gift. [01:28.56] They spend time with each other's families and friends. [01:32.39] Mature love relationships do not cause people to give up their values. [01:37.50] This kind of love rarely develops in the teen years. [01:42.39] Tired of chasing love? [01:45.03] Remember, the secret to finding true romance is not trying so hard. [01:50.45] Internet dating, singles clubs and personal ads are popular. [01:55.13] However, seeking love an set us up for disappointment. [01:59.40] More rewarding is to focus on self improvement, abandoning chase and attracting love into your life. [02:06.47] Here's how to start: Live in the present. [02:10.58] Let go of the thought that everything would be better if only you had someone to share it with. [02:16.55] When you meet someone, do not get fixed on possible outcomes. [02:22.08] Be truly selfish. [02:23.50] Know what you want in a partner and say so. [02:27.41] Be self sufficient. [02:29.38] It's not an admission of weakness to have needs and desires -- we all have them and deserve to satisfy them. [02:36.26] Meet them yourself in positive ways so you will not get yourself to" use" or scare off would be partners. [02:45.02] Concerned about dating? [02:47.29] Because dating can be distracting and time consuming, many teens put off dating so they can focus on school, [02:54.17] music, sports, or other interests. [02:57.25] Group dates allow young teens to interact with the opposite sex in a safe environment. [03:03.18] Being with different people lets the teen learn more about the kind of person they enjoy.

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