TED演講-父母也會犯錯，承認錯誤并不難

在TED演講節(jié)目中，演講者清晰的口語表達及其內(nèi)容的寫作手法都是值得我們學習借鑒的。在親子關系里，父母總是占據(jù)著主導的地位，但其實父母也會犯錯。本期的TED演講告訴我們，父母的干預很可能是錯誤的，并且承認自己做錯也并不難。下面請結(jié)合視頻內(nèi)容，開始口語學習吧！

原文及翻譯

There is no such thing as a perfect parent. Mistakes and struggles, come with the job. Repair assumes there's been a rupture, so to repair, you have to mess up, which means the next time I snap at my kid, instead of berating myself like I did that night in the kitchen, I try to remind myself, I'm focusing on getting good at repair. 

世上沒有完美的父母。做父母難免會犯錯，也會遇到困難。修復的前提是雙方關系已經(jīng)破裂，所以要想修復，就必須把事情搞砸，這意味著下次我發(fā)脾氣時，我不會像那天晚上在廚房里那樣責罵自己，而是試著提醒自己，我要專注于修復。

Name what happened, take responsibility, and state what you would do differently the next time. It could come together like this: "I keep thinking about what happened the other night in the kitchen. I'm sorry I yelled. I'm sure that felt scary, and it wasn't your fault. I'm working on staying calm even when I'm frustrated." A 15-second intervention can have a lifelong impact. I've replaced my child's story of self-blame with a story of self-trust safety and connection.

說出發(fā)生了什么，承擔責任，并說明下次你會做些什么不同的事情?？梢赃@樣說：“我一直在想那天晚上在廚房里發(fā)生的事情。我很抱歉我大喊大叫。我肯定那感覺很可怕，這不是你的錯。我正在努力保持冷靜，即使我很沮喪?！?15 秒的干預可能會產(chǎn)生終生影響。我已經(jīng)用一個自我信任、安全和聯(lián)系的故事取代了孩子的自責故事。

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