溫馨夜讀 PART1 06 The List 缺點單

[00:00.24]The List 缺點單

[00:08.99]A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.

[00:13.91]All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony

[00:18.42]and everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

[00:22.66]A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal,

[00:26.93]“I read in a magazine, a while ago,

[00:30.25]about how we can strengthen our marriage,”she offered.

[00:33.28]“Each of us will write a list of the things

[00:36.49]that we find a bit annoying with the other person.

[00:38.97]Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together

[00:42.61]and make our lives happier together.”

[00:44.98]The husband agreed, so each of them went to a separate room in the house

[00:50.12]and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other.

[00:53.52]They thought about this question for the rest of the day

[00:56.90]and wrote down what they came up with.

[00:59.65]The next morning, at the breakfast table,

[01:02.47]they decided that they would go over their lists.

[01:05.00]“I’ll start,” offered the wife.

[01:07.52]She took out her list. It had many items on it.

[01:11.35]Enough to fill three pages, in fact.

[01:14.08]As she started reading the list of the little annoyances,

[01:18.02]she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband’s eyes.

[01:21.96]“What’s wrong?” she asked. “Nothing,”

[01:25.33]the husband replied, “keep reading your list.”

[01:27.65]The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband.

[01:32.46]She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.

[01:37.94]“Now, you read your list

[01:40.78]and then we’ll talk about the things on both of our lists,” she said happily.

[01:45.17]Quietly the husband stated, “I don’t have anything on my list.

[01:50.42]I think that you are perfect the way that you are.

[01:53.48]I don’t want you to change anything for me.

[01:56.00]You are lovely and wonderful

[01:58.40]and I wouldn’t want to try and change anything about you.”

[02:00.92]The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her

[02:05.52]and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

[02:08.80]In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed.

[02:14.16]We don’t really have to go looking for them.

[02:16.90]We have a wonderful world full of beauty, brightness and hope.

[02:21.16]Why waste time looking for the bad,

[02:25.05]disappointing or annoying when we can look around us,

[02:28.39]and see the wondrous things before us?