女性忠告：給年輕女性的20條忠告

“So, my unsolicited advice to women in the workplace is this. When faced with sexism, or ageism, or lookism, or even really aggressive Buddhism, ask yourself the following question: ‘Is this person in between me and what I want to do?’ If the answer is no, ignore it and move on. Your energy is better used doing your work and outpacing people that way. Then, when you’re in charge, don’t hire the people who were jerky to you.”

“這些話你可能不愛(ài)聽(tīng)，但我還是覺(jué)得有必要提一下。當(dāng)你在工作場(chǎng)所遇到性別歧視、年齡歧視、以貌取人的狀況，甚至是極端佛教徒時(shí)，你不妨問(wèn)自己這樣一個(gè)問(wèn)題：‘這家伙會(huì)妨礙我工作嗎?’如果你的回答是‘否’，那么你大可直接無(wú)視他。一個(gè)人的精力是有限的，所以你最好把心思花在怎樣干好你的工作上，這才是你勝出的關(guān)鍵。等你坐上了管理層的位子，記得別雇傭那些曾經(jīng)欺負(fù)過(guò)你的傻帽兒。”

–Tina Fey, writer, actress, and author of Bossypants

–Tina Fey, 作家, 演員,《Bossypants》的作者

“When you’re doing the work you’re meant to do, it feels right and every day is a bonus, regardless of what you’re getting paid.”

“(工作)要么別做，要做就好好做。雖說(shuō)薪水沒(méi)少拿，但全情投入(工作)的感覺(jué)實(shí)在爽斃了，就好像每天都發(fā)獎(jiǎng)金似的。”

–Oprah Winfrey, media mogul

–Oprah Winfrey, 傳媒界大姐大

“You have to be open-minded when those early opportunities present themselves; take advantage of them whether they’re going to make you a lot of money or not.”

“你必須在機(jī)會(huì)降臨之初預(yù)見(jiàn)到其背后無(wú)限的可能，果斷把握契機(jī)，別管它能不能讓你大賺一筆。”

–Rachael Ray, chef, cookbook author, and television personality

–Rachael Ray, 廚師,烹飪書作家 , 電視明星

“People say that money is not the key to happiness, but I always figured if you have enough money, you can have a key made.”

“人們都說(shuō)錢不是打開(kāi)幸福之門的鑰匙，但我總覺(jué)得如果你特有錢的話，雇人給你打造一把鑰匙肯定不成問(wèn)題。”

–Joan Rivers, comedian

–Joan Rivers, 喜劇演員

“I’ve yet to be on a campus where most women weren’t worrying about some aspect of combining marriage, children, and a career. I’ve yet to find one where many men were worrying about the same thing.”

“我還沒(méi)去過(guò)哪所大學(xué)，那里的女生不在為兼顧婚姻、子女和事業(yè)而煩惱，但我也尚未發(fā)現(xiàn)哪所大學(xué)，那里的男生在為這些事情而擔(dān)憂。”

–Gloria Steinem, journalist, author, and political activist

–Gloria Steinem, 記者, 作家, 政治活動(dòng)家

“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore.

“有些女人選擇追隨男人，有些女人選擇追隨她們的夢(mèng)想。如果你正在為這道選擇題發(fā)愁，那么請(qǐng)記?。耗愕氖聵I(yè)永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)在某個(gè)早晨醒來(lái)然后對(duì)你說(shuō)他不再愛(ài)你了。”

–Lady Gaga, entertainer

–Lady Gaga, 娛樂(lè)明星

“You have to ask for what you deserve, and not feel guilty about it. Do not put yourself on sale.”

“你必須為自己爭(zhēng)取你應(yīng)得的報(bào)酬，而且你并不需要為此而感到不好意思。千萬(wàn)別把自己賤賣了。”

—Suze Orman, financial planner

—Suze Orman, 理財(cái)顧問(wèn)

“Some failure in life is inevitable. It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all—in which case, you fail by default.”

“生活中有些失敗是不可避免的。想要任何事都盡善盡美那完全就是天方夜譚。除非你處處小心謹(jǐn)慎，不過(guò)要是非得那樣過(guò)日子的話你還不如別活了——而這又恰恰證明你默認(rèn)了你的失敗。”

–JK Rowling, author

–JK Rowling, 作家

“A key component of wisdom is fearlessness, which is not the absence of fear, but rather not letting our fears get in the way.”

“無(wú)畏是智慧一個(gè)關(guān)鍵的組成部分，它并不是指無(wú)所畏懼，而是不讓畏懼阻礙你前行的腳步。”

–Arianna Huffington, author and founder of The Huffington Post

–Arianna Huffington, 作家 、網(wǎng)絡(luò)報(bào)紙《Huffington Post》創(chuàng)始人

“The only rule is don’t be boring and dress cute wherever you go. Life is too short to blend in.”

“成功的唯一秘訣就是不論去哪里都要穿對(duì)衣服，并且不要讓人覺(jué)得你乏善可陳。人生苦短，別讓自己湮沒(méi)在蕓蕓眾生里。”

–Paris Hilton, celebrity

–Paris Hilton, 名媛

“Sometimes you have to be a bitch to get things done.”

“有時(shí)候，想成事你就不得不犯賤。”

–Madonna, entertainer

–Madonna, 娛樂(lè)明星

“If you do things well, do them better. Be daring, be first, be different, be just.”

“如果你有能力把一件事做好，那么就力求把它做得更好。要大膽，要爭(zhēng)第一，要與眾不同，要毫厘不差。”

–Anita Roddick, founder of The Body Shop

–Anita Roddick, 護(hù)膚品品牌The Body Shop創(chuàng)始人

“Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn’t interest you, don’t do it. I would have made a terrible mother.”

“世界上最重大的工作莫過(guò)于做好一個(gè)家庭主婦和母親，如果你對(duì)此不感興趣的話就別強(qiáng)迫自己。我差點(diǎn)兒就成了一個(gè)糟糕的母親。”

–Katharine Hepburn, actress

–Katharine Hepburn, 演員

“Success can make you go one of two ways. It can make you a prima donna, or it can smooth the edges, take away the insecurities, let the nice things come out.”

“成功只會(huì)帶給你兩條路。要么令你變得格外輸不起，要么磨平你的棱角，消除你的不安全感，讓你內(nèi)在美好的東西流露出來(lái)。”

–Barbara Walters, former anchor of ABC News: 20/20

–Barbara Walters, ABC 新聞: 20/20的前主播

“The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it.”

“女人需要明白的是權(quán)力不是別人給的，而是自己爭(zhēng)取來(lái)的。”

–Roseanne Barr, comedian and actress

–Roseanne Barr, 笑星、演員

“If the career you have chosen has some unexpected inconvenience, console yourself by reflecting that no career is without them.”

“如果你選擇的事業(yè)給你帶來(lái)某些始料未及的不便，那么不妨這樣想，沒(méi)有什么事業(yè)是一帆風(fēng)順的。這樣一來(lái)你應(yīng)該能得到些許安慰了。”

–Jane Fonda, actress and activist

–Jane Fonda, 演員、活動(dòng)家

“The woman who can create her own job is the woman who will win fame and fortune.”

“自己創(chuàng)業(yè)的女人是能贏得名聲和財(cái)富的女人。”

–Amelia Earhart, aviator

–Amelia Earhart, 飛行員