Quora精選：生活中，多么痛的領悟

What is the best lesson you have learnt in your life?你生命中最大的啟示是什么？

獲得10.7k好評的回答：@ Vishwas Londhe

Imaginary problems are the only complexities in this world.想象中的問題是世界上最復雜的東西。I have lived for 60 years and found that actual problems are always manageable, if we don't panic. Only imaginary problems do not have solutions. Trying to solve them is the greatest time waster one can engage in.我活了60多年了，終于發(fā)現(xiàn)，事實上，如果我們不害怕的話，所有的問題都能解決的。只有想象中的問題沒有辦法解決。試著去解決這種問題的人是世界上最浪費時間的人。

獲得2.4k好評的回答：@ Sudhir Suvarna

Friends really don't matter. Get hospitalized once and you will know.朋友真的不在乎你，去住一次院你就知道了。Money and success makes you a jerk. Adversity makes you humble.金錢跟成功會把你變成一個混蛋。逆境會使你謙卑。People who talk about others with me, will talk about me with others too.那些跟我議論別人的人也會跟別人一起議論我。Time doesn't heal setbacks. You only get used to it.時間不能讓你擺脫挫折，你只能慢慢適應。Blood is thicker than water.血濃于水。Most people you know, love it when you are in trouble, until they are in trouble themselves.你知道的，很多人見你有困難的時候幸災樂禍，一直到他們自己也有困難的時候。Women are emotionally stronger than men and the major reason behind a man's success.女人大多數(shù)在感情上都比男人堅強，而且也是男人成功背后至關重要的因素。There is a reason why philosophy is not taught in school. You got a life ahead to learn.學校里不教哲學是有原因的。因為生活早就教會了你。If life was easy, it would have been boring.如果生活很簡單的話，那就沒什么意思了。

(來源:滬江)