愛(ài)駐我心 第24期:你所記得的

All you remember about your child being an infant isthe incredible awe you felt about the precious miracle you created.

你所記得的，當(dāng)你的孩子是個(gè)嬰兒時(shí)，你對(duì)自己創(chuàng)造出的堪稱完美奇跡的作品，感到不可思議的敬畏。

You remember having plenty of time to bestow all your wisdom and knowledge.

你記得你有大量的時(shí)間去傳授你所有的智慧和知識(shí)。

You thought your child would take all of your advice and make fewer mistakes, and be muchsmarter than you were.

你認(rèn)為你的孩子將會(huì)接受你所有的忠告而少犯錯(cuò)誤，將會(huì)比孩提時(shí)代的你聰明許多。

You wished for your child to hurry and grow up.

你多希望你的孩子快快長(zhǎng)大。

All you remember about your child being two is never using the restroom alone or getting towatch a movie without talking animals.

你所記得的，是孩子兩歲時(shí)，從不能獨(dú)自使用衛(wèi)生間，從不看一部與動(dòng)物無(wú)關(guān)的電影。

You recall afternoons talking on the phone while crouching in the bedroom closet, and beingconvinced your child would be the first Ivy League college student to graduate wearingpullovers at the ceremony.

你記得那些蜷縮在臥室的壁櫥里與朋友通電話的下午，深信你的孩子將是第一個(gè)身著套頭衫出席畢業(yè)典禮的常春藤名牌大學(xué)畢業(yè)生。

You remember worrying about the bag of M&M’s melting in your pocket and ruining your gooddress.

你記得你擔(dān)心那袋M&M巧克力糖會(huì)在你的衣兜里融化，毀了你體面的衣服。

You wished for your child to be more independent.

你多希望你的孩子更獨(dú)立些。

All you remember about your child being five is the first day of school and finally having thehouse to yourself.

你所記得的，是孩子5歲時(shí)，他開(kāi)學(xué)的第一天，你終于獨(dú)自擁有整個(gè)房子了。

You remember joining the PTA and being elected president when you left a meeting to use therestroom.

你記得參加家長(zhǎng)教師聯(lián)系會(huì)，在你離開(kāi)會(huì)議室去洗手間時(shí)，你當(dāng)選為會(huì)長(zhǎng)。

You remember being asked “Is Santa real?” and saying “yes” because he had to be for a littlebit longer.

你記得孩子問(wèn)你“圣誕老人是真的嗎?”你回答“是的”，因?yàn)樗€需要你的肯定回答，盡管不久他就能自己判斷了。

You remember shaking the sofa cushions for loose change, so the tooth fairy could come andtake away your child’s first lost tooth.

你記得在沙發(fā)墊子下一通翻騰要找出些零錢，這樣牙齒仙女就會(huì)來(lái)帶走你孩子掉的第一顆牙。

You wished for your child to have all permanent teeth.

你多希望孩子的牙都換成了恒牙。

All you remember about your child being seven is the carpool schedule.

你所記得的，是孩子7歲時(shí)，合伙用車的時(shí)間安排。

You learned to apply makeup in two minutes and brush your teeth in the rearview mirrorbecause the only time you had to yourself was when you were stopped at red lights.

你學(xué)會(huì)了在兩分鐘內(nèi)化完妝，照著汽車的后視鏡刷牙，因?yàn)槟隳芙o你自己找出的時(shí)間就只有汽車停在紅燈前的那小段。

You considered painting your car yellow and posting a “taxi” sign on the lawn next to thegarage door.

你想過(guò)把你的車子漆成黃色，并在車庫(kù)門旁的草坪上立一個(gè)“出租車”的標(biāo)志牌。

You remember people staring at you, the few times you were out of the car, because you keptflexing your foot and making acceleration noises.

你記得有幾次你下車后，人們盯著你，因?yàn)槟悴粩嘤媚_踩油門加速，制造噪音。

You wished for the day your child would learn how to drive.

你多希望孩子有一天能學(xué)會(huì)開(kāi)車。

All you remember about your child being ten is managing the school fund-raisers.

你所記得的，是孩子10歲時(shí)，怎么組織學(xué)校的募捐者。

You sold wrapping paper for paint, T-shirts for new furniture, and magazine subscriptions forshade trees in the school playground.

你們?yōu)橹匦路鬯W(xué)校兜售包裝紙，為購(gòu)置新家具兜售T恤衫，為在學(xué)校操場(chǎng)上種植遮陽(yáng)樹(shù)勸人訂閱各種雜志。

You remember storing a hundred cases of candy bars in the garage to sell so the school bandcould get new uniforms, and how they melted together on an unseasonably warm springafternoon.

你還記得你在車庫(kù)里存放了上百盒糖果等待出售，得到錢后學(xué)校的樂(lè)隊(duì)就可以購(gòu)置新制服，可是那些糖果竟在一個(gè)暖和得過(guò)頭的春天下午全都融化在一起了。

You wished your child would grow out of playing an instrument.

你多希望孩子長(zhǎng)大，不再演奏什么樂(lè)器了。

All you remember about your child being twelve is sitting in the stands during baseballpractice and hoping your child’s team would strike out fast because you had more importantthings to do at home.

你所記得的，是孩子12歲時(shí)，在體育場(chǎng)打棒球練習(xí)賽時(shí)，你坐在看臺(tái)上，希望你孩子所在的隊(duì)很快三擊不中出局，因?yàn)榧依镞€有更重要的事等你去做。

The coach didn’t understand how busy you were.

教練不明白你為什么那么忙。

You wished the baseball season would be over soon.

你多希望棒球賽季能盡快結(jié)束。

All you remember about your child being fourteen is being asked not to stop the car in front ofthe school in the morning.

你所記得的，孩子14歲時(shí)，他不讓你早晨把汽車停在校門口。

You had to drive two blocks further and unlock the doors without coming to a complete stop.

你不得不開(kāi)過(guò)兩個(gè)街區(qū)，車還沒(méi)停穩(wěn)就趕緊打開(kāi)車門。

You remember not getting to kiss your child goodbye or talking to him in front of his friends.

你記得沒(méi)能在他的朋友面前跟他吻別或說(shuō)話。

You wished your child would be more mature.

你多希望孩子能更成熟些。

All you remember about your child being sixteen is loud music and undecipherable lyricsscreamed to a rhythmic beat.

你所記得的，孩子16歲時(shí)，用吵鬧的音樂(lè)和富有節(jié)奏的拍子尖聲唱出難以聽(tīng)懂的歌詞。

You wished for your child to grow up and leave home with the stereo.

你多希望孩子快點(diǎn)長(zhǎng)大成人，帶著音響離開(kāi)家吧。

All you remember about your child being eighteen is the day they were born and having all thetime in the world.

你所記得的，孩子18歲時(shí)，他們出生的那一天，擁有世間所有的時(shí)光。

And, as you walk through your quiet house, you wonder where they went and you wish yourchild hadn’t grown up so fast.

當(dāng)你穿過(guò)你寂靜的房子時(shí)，你不知道他們?nèi)ツ睦锪?mdash;—你多希望孩子別這么快就長(zhǎng)大了。