他其實沒那么喜歡你 第39期:拋開不適合你的男人

I got out of there and fast, because I realized, nomatter how nice he was to me, and how intimate wewere pretending to be, he was just not that into meand I wanted more.

我離開了那兒開始了節(jié)食，因為我意識到不管他對我有多好，我們假裝有多么的親密，他只是沒那么喜歡我，而且我想要的更多。

IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE GREG

如果你不相信格雷格

Twenty out of the twenty men polled said, withouthesitation (well, it was all done by e-mail, but they all seemed really sure about it) , that theyhave never been really into a woman who they didn't want to have sex with.

20個接受調(diào)查的男人一致毫不猶豫的說(調(diào)查通過郵件，但是他們看起來非常的肯定)，他們從不和不喜歡的女人做愛。

One man wrote in, "What? ! Excuse me? ! And the point is? !"

一個男人寫道，“什么?再說一遍?!這什么意思!”

What You Should Have Learned in This Chapter

你應在本章學到的

People tell you who they are all the time. When a man says he can't be monogamous, youshould believe him.

人們一直在對你詮釋自己。當一個男人說他不遵循一夫一妻制的時候，你應該相信他。

Companionship is wonderful, but companionship with sex is even better.

陪伴很棒，但是有性的陪伴更完美。

Call a spade a spade or, more fittingly, a friend a friend, and go find yourself a friend that can'tkeep his hands off you.

有話直說，更恰當?shù)恼f法是，朋友就是朋友，去給自己找一個無法把手從你身上拿開的朋友吧。

Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly.

失去的尊嚴會比找一個新男友更難找回，所以制定好優(yōu)先等級吧。

If you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppy.

如果你忍得住只是和一個人抱著度過日日夜夜，那不妨買只寵物。

There's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff.

會有人想跟你做愛的，美人兒。

Our Super-Good Really Helpful Excises

我們超級棒的真實有用的練習

Imagine that in your minds have a big flag. Now imagine color it in with a big crayon.

想象一下你腦海里有一面旗幟。想象自己用一支大蠟筆上色。

Now, you have a big red flag. Good, because that's what a man not wanting to have sex withyou is.

現(xiàn)在你有一面紅旗。很好，因為那就是一個不想跟你做愛的男人。

Now clear your head and go get yourself some good loving.

現(xiàn)在清空你的大腦，給自己找尋幸福的下一春吧。