今天分享的是超級(jí)有效的談話技巧。
awkward silence
尷尬的沉默
tongue-tied
開不了口
Trick #1:Give short and simple responses.
Trick #2:Listen to what the other says, and try to relate it to something else.
Trick #3:Ask questions and let the other person talk more.
Trick #4:Share your little stories with others.
技巧1:給簡(jiǎn)短的回答。
技巧2:聽別人說(shuō),并試圖關(guān)聯(lián)到別的。
技巧3:提問(wèn),讓對(duì)方多說(shuō)話。
技巧4:與別人分享你的小故事。
We talk to people on a daily basis, whether with your friends, family or coworkers.
我們每天與人交談,無(wú)論是與你的朋友、家人或同事。
Me too.
I think so.
You are right.
You are awesome.
我也是。
我也這么想的。
你說(shuō)的對(duì)。
你好厲害。
Because this not only shows that you respect the other person, but also that you’re enjoying chatting with them. People will usually be happy that you’re interested in what they’re saying, and will want to share more with you.
因?yàn)檫@不僅表明你尊重對(duì)方,而且還表示你喜歡和他們聊天。人們通常會(huì)很高興你對(duì)他們所說(shuō)的話感興趣,并且愿意和你分享更多。
Cause Sharing some detail about yourself makes the other person feel that you trust them, and will make the conversation more pleasant for the both of you.
分享一些關(guān)于你自己的細(xì)節(jié)會(huì)讓對(duì)方感覺到你信任他們,并且會(huì)讓你們兩人的談話更加愉快。
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