卡卡英語 第381期:收獲幸福人生的秘訣(2)
今天這篇文章，我花了很長時(shí)間閱讀，思考和分析，不是因?yàn)槠渲械膯卧~有多么難，而是被這篇文章的思維以及給出的方法感到十分欣賞。這篇文章主要講的是怎樣才能從最根本的意義上獲得快樂，幸福的人生。也是《早餐英語》在美文欄目中講解最長的一篇文章，今天分享給大家第一部分。希望能聽到，看到這個(gè)節(jié)目的你，真正的快樂起來，愛你們呦！
New Words:
meditate vi. 冥想；沉思
settle in v. 遷入
inject vt. 注入；注射
negative 消極的；
automatically adv.無意識(shí)地
possess vt. 擁有；持有；
non-judgmental adj. 非主觀的；無偏見的
mindfulness n. 留心，警覺
permission n. 允許，許可
6. Meditate regularly
Self-realization has been shown to have many benefits and this can be achieved by regularly practicing mindfulness meditation.
What you can do right now:
Download the no-nonsense Headspace meditation app. All you need is 10 minutes and a comfortable chair. If you find yourself thinking you don't have 10 minutes, then let the truth of Tony Robbins' words settle in: "If you don't have 10 minutes, you don't have a life."
6. 經(jīng)常冥想
自我反思已被證明有許多好處，這可以通過定期練習(xí)心靈冥想來實(shí)現(xiàn)。
你現(xiàn)在能做什么？：
下載有意義的冥想應(yīng)用。你只需要10分鐘和一張舒適的椅子。如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己沒有10分鐘的時(shí)間，那就記住托尼.羅賓斯的的話：“如果你連10分鐘都沒有，你就沒有真正的人生。”
7. Chang your attitude to gratitude
Practicing gratitude can help you shift your focus from being sad about the things you don't have in your life to being glad for the things you do have.
What you can do right now:
a)Start a habit of writing down three things you are grateful for each day.
b)Regularly write a thank you card to someone you appreciate or to someone who has done something recently for you.
c)Inject things you are thankful for in your daily conversations instead of focusing on negative topics.
7. 改變你對感恩的態(tài)度
感恩可以幫助你把注意力從因?yàn)槟銢]有擁有而感到悲傷轉(zhuǎn)移到你----對所擁有的感到幸福。
你現(xiàn)在能做什么？：
a)養(yǎng)成每天記下你每天感激的三件事的習(xí)慣。
b)定期向你欣賞的人或是最近為你做過某事的人寫一張感謝卡。
c)在日常對話中加入你所感激的事情，而不是專注于消極話題。
8. Create better habits
If your habits are not making you healthier and happier, that means you may be automatically spending almost half your day doing things that make you more unhappy.
8. 養(yǎng)成更好的習(xí)慣
如果你的習(xí)慣并沒有使你更健康、更快樂，那就意味著你一天可能會(huì)自動(dòng)花掉你一半的時(shí)間去做一些讓你更不快樂的事情。
9. Learn how to predict happiness more accurately
What you can do right now:
Reach out to people that are living the lifestyle you want or possess something you want to have; get on a call with them, or take them out for coffee. Ask about their experiences, both good and bad, and observe if what they have makes them happier, and then decide if it is something you want as well.
9. 學(xué)習(xí)如何更準(zhǔn)確地預(yù)測幸福
你現(xiàn)在能做什么？：
接觸那些生活有你想要生活或擁有你想要的東西的人；和他們打個(gè)電話，喝個(gè)咖啡。詢問他們的經(jīng)歷，包括好的和壞的，觀察他們擁有的是否，然后再?zèng)Q定這是不是你也想要的。
10. Treat yourself with compassion to boost your self-esteem
What you can do right now:
a)Treat yourself as you would be your own child.
b)Practice non-judgmental mindfulness (i.e. meditation, yoga) to quiet your inner-critic.
c)Remind yourself of the fact that you are not alone.
d)Give yourself permission to be imperfect.
10. 用同情心來提升你的自尊心
你現(xiàn)在能做什么？
a)對待自己就像對待自己的孩子一樣。
b)練習(xí)非評判性的正念（即冥想、瑜伽）來平息內(nèi)心的批評。
c)提醒自己其實(shí)你并不孤單。
d)允許自己不完美。
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