貓咪教給我們的那些事

對(duì)于愛(ài)貓人士而言，貓獨(dú)立又慵懶，在自己的世界中自得其樂(lè)。貓的特質(zhì)總是能深深抓住人們的心：它不懼過(guò)往，不憂(yōu)未來(lái)，活在當(dāng)下，其內(nèi)在的和諧統(tǒng)一實(shí)在是令人望塵莫及……貓能教給我們的其實(shí)很多。那么關(guān)于生活，人類(lèi)究竟可以從貓身上學(xué)到些什么呢?

By John Gray 柯寧莘 譯

A philosopher once assured me, many years ago, that he had converted his cat to veganism. Believing he was joking, I asked how he had achieved this feat. Had he supplied the cat with mouse-flavored vegan food? Had he presented his cat with other cats, already practicing veganism, as feline role models? Or had he argued with the cat and convinced it that eating meat is wrong? My interlocutor wasn’t amused, and I realized that he really believed the cat had opted for a meat-free diet.

很多年以前，有一位哲學(xué)家曾信誓旦旦地和我說(shuō)，他讓他的貓學(xué)會(huì)了吃純素。我以為他是開(kāi)玩笑，便問(wèn)他是如何實(shí)現(xiàn)這一個(gè)壯舉的。是給貓?zhí)峁┝死鲜罂谖兜乃厥硢?還是通過(guò)其他貓成功吃素的案例給他的貓樹(shù)立了榜樣?又或者曾經(jīng)和他的貓爭(zhēng)論并使它相信吃肉是不對(duì)的?然而我面前的這位仁兄并沒(méi)有被逗笑，這讓我意識(shí)到他真的認(rèn)為是他的貓自己選擇了吃素。

The independence of cats is one of the features most admired by those of us who love them. Having entered into close proximity with human beings, cats were quickly recognized as being useful to them.

在貓的種種特質(zhì)中，我們這些愛(ài)貓人士最欣賞的一點(diǎn)就是它的獨(dú)立性。當(dāng)貓與人的關(guān)系變得親密之后，人們很快就意識(shí)到了貓的重要作用。

For many cat lovers, I suspect what they cherish is not how cats resemble us, but their differences from us. Living with cats opens a window into a world beyond our own and teaches us something important about what it means to be human.

我甚至懷疑許多愛(ài)貓人士喜歡的并不是貓與我們的相似點(diǎn)，而是它們與我們的不同之處。與貓同住不僅讓我們有機(jī)會(huì)了解人類(lèi)以外的世界，還教會(huì)我們一些重要的事情，即人類(lèi)的意義所在。

One of the most attractive features of cats is that contentment is their default state. Unlike human beings—particularly of the modern variety—they do not spend their days in laborious pursuit of a fantasy of happiness. They are comfortable with themselves and their lives, and remain in that condition for as long as they are not threatened. When they are not eating or sleeping, they pass the time exploring and playing, never asking for reasons to live. Life itself is enough for them.

貓最吸引人的一點(diǎn)就是它們一向自得其樂(lè)，不像人類(lèi)——特別是現(xiàn)代人——它們不會(huì)把時(shí)間花在汲汲于享樂(lè)上。貓對(duì)于自身和自己的生活怡然自得，并且只要四周沒(méi)有威脅，它們就樂(lè)于保持現(xiàn)狀。貓?jiān)诓怀燥埢虿凰X(jué)的時(shí)候，就會(huì)將時(shí)間花在探險(xiǎn)和玩耍上，從不會(huì)追尋活著的意義，因?yàn)閷?duì)它們來(lái)說(shuō)只要活著就足夠了。

If there are people who can’t stand cats—and it seems there are many—one reason may be envy. As Jeffrey Masson, whose The Nine Emotional Lives of Cats is the best book on cats ever published, has written:

如果有人不能忍受貓——似乎為數(shù)不少——那么原因之一可能是嫉妒。正如杰弗里•馬森，目前出版的關(guān)于貓的最好的一本書(shū)——《貓咪的九種情感生活》的作者，曾經(jīng)寫(xiě)道：

In English, if not in “cat”, the word contentment conveys something of a feeling of being at peace with the world or with yourself. It is more of a state than a fleeting emotion. A person can be happy (momentarily) without being content. Contentment cannot be purchased; happiness, on the other hand, has a price.

在英語(yǔ)中，如果不是用在貓身上，那么“滿(mǎn)足”這個(gè)詞代表的就是你與世界或者你與自己達(dá)到的和諧統(tǒng)一。相較于稍縱即逝的情緒，滿(mǎn)足更似一種狀態(tài)。一個(gè)人即使在不滿(mǎn)足時(shí)也可以是快樂(lè)的(即使是暫時(shí)的)。滿(mǎn)足感我們無(wú)法用錢(qián)來(lái)買(mǎi)到;而快樂(lè)，從另一方面來(lái)說(shuō)，是有標(biāo)價(jià)的。

Whereas human beings search for happiness in an ever-increasing plethora of religions and therapies, cats enjoy contentment as their birthright. Why this is so is worth exploring. Cats show no sign of regretting the past or fretting about the future. They live, absorbed in the present moment. It will be said that this is because they cannot envision he past or future. Perhaps so, though their habit of demanding their breakfast at the accustomed hour shows they do have a sense of the passage of time. But cats, unlike people, are not haunted by an anxious sense that time is slipping away. Not thinking of their lives as stories in which they are moving towards some better state, they meet each day as it comes. They do not waste their lives dreading the time when their lives must end. Not fearing death, they enjoy a kind of immortality. All animals have these qualities but they seem particularly pronounced in cats. Of all the animals that have lived closely with human beings, cats must surely be the least influenced by them.

人們?cè)谠絹?lái)越多的宗教和治療中尋求快樂(lè)，而貓卻將滿(mǎn)足視為其與生俱來(lái)的權(quán)利。這其中的原委值得我們探討。貓既不會(huì)對(duì)過(guò)去感到遺憾，也不會(huì)對(duì)未來(lái)感到焦慮，它們?nèi)褙炞⒌鼗钤诋?dāng)下。有人可能說(shuō)，這是因?yàn)樗鼈儫o(wú)法追憶過(guò)往和想象未來(lái)?？赡苁沁@樣，雖然貓定時(shí)吃早餐的習(xí)慣證明它們有時(shí)間觀念，但與人類(lèi)不同的是，它們不會(huì)對(duì)時(shí)間的流逝產(chǎn)生焦慮感。貓不會(huì)像活在故事里一樣去追求更好的生活狀態(tài)，而只是迎接每一天的到來(lái)。它們不會(huì)浪費(fèi)時(shí)間為生命必將迎來(lái)的終結(jié)而感到恐懼。它們不懼死亡，因此享受著一種不朽的狀態(tài)。所有的動(dòng)物都具有這些特質(zhì)，但這些似乎在貓身上尤為彰顯。而在所有與人類(lèi)共同生活過(guò)的動(dòng)物當(dāng)中，貓一定是最不受人類(lèi)影響的。

“When I play with my cat,” Montaigne wrote, “how do I know she is not playing with me?” With creatures that can be understood only partly by us, one can only speculate about their inner life. Yet it is tempting to suppose that the secret of feline contentment is that cats have no need to defer to a picture of themselves as they imagine they should be. Certainly they have a sense of dignity: they avoid people who treat them disrespectfully, for instance. Yet cats do not struggle to remake themselves according to any ideal self-image. Not inwardly divided, they are happy to be themselves.

“和我家貓玩耍的時(shí)候，”蒙田寫(xiě)道，“我怎么知道她并不是在和我玩呢?”我們往往不能完全地理解它們，只能猜測(cè)它們的內(nèi)心所想。我們很想這樣猜測(cè)：貓獲得滿(mǎn)足感的秘訣就在于它們不必成為自以為應(yīng)該成為的樣子(即安于現(xiàn)狀)。當(dāng)然它們會(huì)有尊嚴(yán)感：例如，它們拒絕接近不尊重它們的人。但貓還是不會(huì)按照任何完美的樣子費(fèi)力改造自己。它們內(nèi)心從不矛盾，只樂(lè)于做自己。

The moralizing philosopher who believed he had persuaded his cat to adopt a meat-free diet only showed how silly philosophers can be. Rather than seek to teach his cat, he would have been wiser to learn from it, as Montaigne did. Living in accord with their nature, cats do not need moral instruction. Dissatisfaction with our natural condition, on the other hand, seems to be natural for human beings. The human animal never ceases to strive for some higher form of life. Cats make no such effort. Without any process of laborious cogitation, these lucid, playful and supremely adaptable creatures already know how to live.

那位對(duì)貓說(shuō)教的哲學(xué)家相信他已經(jīng)成功說(shuō)服他的貓吃素，只證明了哲學(xué)家有多么愚蠢。他應(yīng)當(dāng)像蒙田一樣，學(xué)得聰明一些，從他的貓咪身上學(xué)些什么，而不是去教導(dǎo)他的貓。貓順從天性生活，不需要道德說(shuō)教。而對(duì)自然條件感到不滿(mǎn)，從另一方面說(shuō)，似乎是人類(lèi)的天性。人類(lèi)從來(lái)不會(huì)停止追求更好的生活方式。貓不會(huì)為此做任何努力。無(wú)需任何深思熟慮，這種頭腦清楚、頑皮而又適應(yīng)性極強(qiáng)的生物早已知道該如何生活。