什么是自我實(shí)現(xiàn)?自我實(shí)現(xiàn)的人的13個特點(diǎn)
Have you ever heard of self-actualization? As someone who has been a personal development junkie for several years now, I was shocked to learn about self-actualization recently.
你聽說過自我實(shí)現(xiàn)嗎?作為一個多年來一直沉迷于個人發(fā)展的人,我最近對自我實(shí)現(xiàn)感到震驚。
When I came across the term, I couldn’t help but think, “What is this self-actualization thing, and how have I gone so many years without hearing about it?”
當(dāng)我遇到這個詞時,我不禁想,“自我實(shí)現(xiàn)是什么?我怎么這么多年都沒聽說過它?”
Maybe you’re in the same boat. Perhaps you’ve read up on tons of other topics like self-limiting beliefs, how to gain more self-awareness, how to be more self-confident, but you’ve never heard of self-actualization.
也許你們處境相同,也許你讀過很多其他的話題,比如自我限制的信念,如何獲得更多的自我意識,如何變得更加自信,但是你從來沒有聽說過自我實(shí)現(xiàn)。
Don’t fret! I’m going to give you a crash course on what self-actualization is and which 13 traits are most commonly found in a self-actualized person.
不要煩惱!我要給你們上一堂速成課,關(guān)于什么是自我實(shí)現(xiàn),以及在自我實(shí)現(xiàn)的人身上最常見的13種特質(zhì)。
1. They Practice Acceptance
他們練習(xí)接受
2. Self-Actualized People Are Authentic and True
自我實(shí)現(xiàn)的人是真實(shí)的
3. They Possess a Strong Sense of Realism
他們具有強(qiáng)烈的現(xiàn)實(shí)主義意識
4. They Live in the Here and Now
他們活在當(dāng)下
5. The Self-Actualized Are Autonomous and Independent
自我實(shí)現(xiàn)的人是自主的、獨(dú)立的
6. They Have Excellent Moral Intuition
他們有很好的道德直覺
7. Self-Actualize People Seek Growth and Development
自我實(shí)現(xiàn)的人尋求成長和發(fā)展
8. They are Problem-Solving, Humanitarians
他們是解決問題的人道主義者
9. They Have a Strong Sense of Purpose
他們有很強(qiáng)的使命感
10. The Self-Actualized Person Seeks Peak Experiences
自我實(shí)現(xiàn)的人尋求高峰體驗(yàn)
11. They Embrace the Unknown
他們擁抱未知
12. They Are Unconventional and Spontaneous
他們是非常規(guī)的和自發(fā)的
13. They Have a Thoughtful Sense of Humor
他們有深思熟慮的幽默感
So there you have it: 13 traits that self-actualized people share. To get on the path to self-actualization, you can study these traits and seek to live a life that mirrors them.
這就是自我實(shí)現(xiàn)的人共有的13個特點(diǎn)。為了走上自我實(shí)現(xiàn)的道路,你可以研究這些特質(zhì),并尋求一種能反映這些特質(zhì)的生活。
There’s no step-by-step plan to follow to become self-actualized. However, these 13 traits offer you a guide to becoming more self-actualized over time. Remember, becoming self-actualized is not a destination; it’s a journey.
自我實(shí)現(xiàn)并沒有一個循序漸進(jìn)的計劃,然而,隨著時間的推移,這13個特質(zhì)會引導(dǎo)你變得更加自我實(shí)現(xiàn)。記住,自我實(shí)現(xiàn)不是終點(diǎn),而是一個旅程。
You can learn to be more present in your life, to accept yourself and those around you, and to be more spontaneous and unconventional. You can work towards finding your purpose in life, to becoming more humanitarian, and embracing the unknown.
你可以學(xué)著在生活中更加真實(shí),接受自己和周圍的人,變得更加自然和非傳統(tǒng)。你可以努力找到你的人生目標(biāo),變得更加人道主義,擁抱未知。
As you live your life, focus on improving these 13 areas of your life, and you’ll be well on your way to becoming self-actualized.
在你的生活中,集中精力改善這13個方面,你就會在實(shí)現(xiàn)自我的道路上走得很好。