讓愛情保鮮的27個(gè)法寶

1. Start each day with a kiss--I think this one is not that hard; on the contrary; it can be healthy and nice.

   用一個(gè)吻迎接新的一天。接吻如此簡單，卻能令人身心愉悅。

 
2. Date once a week--May not as often as once a week, let's say every other week or that a date can be inside your home and that you don't have to go somewhere fancy to have it, you get the idea, right?

   一周約會一次。也不必非得一周一次，也可以兩周一次。而且約會的地點(diǎn)可以在家中，不必非去什么特別的地方。你是不是明白了？有心就好。

 
3. Accept differences--No one is perfect. However; healthy arguments are good for the relationship, hence; the most important thing would be learning how to compromise with one another.

   接受彼此的不同，因?yàn)槿藷o完人。適度的爭論可以增進(jìn)雙方的關(guān)系，但重要的是要在爭論中懂得妥協(xié)。

 
4. Be polite--Please, thank you, you are welcome… these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first and you must always use these phrases inside your home.

   多用禮貌用語。請、謝謝、不客氣這些話不只要說給陌生人聽，更要說給你的伴侶和家人聽。在家里要記得多用這些客氣話。　

 
5. Be gentle--a person is supposed to be the closest to his/her spouse, being gentle is crucial to keep them close enough.

   溫柔一些——若想關(guān)系親密，溫柔是至關(guān)重要的。

 
6. Give gifts--nice small gifts are appreciated every once in a while.

   給對方送禮物——偶爾送些甜蜜小禮物，就能令對方感激不盡。

7. Touch--intimacy between married people is very important and touching is a means of communication that reflects closeness, connection and love; it is your way of keeping the spark alive.

   撫觸——情侶間的撫觸非常重要，它可以增進(jìn)情感，傳達(dá)愛意。它是情感交流的一種方式，它可以讓愛的火花常燃不熄。

 
8. Talk about dreams--dreams of the future that is; if you don't share your dreams with your spouse; then who?

   談?wù)搲粝?mdash;—說說對未來的憧憬。試想，若不和伴侶分享你的夢想，那么還能同誰講呢？

 
9. Select a song that can be "our song" —— this sounds like a cliché, but it can be nice, don't you think?

   選一首歌作為“你倆的歌”——聽起來有點(diǎn)老套，但是不是很美妙？

 
10. Laugh together--laughter is medicine. When you share good laughs together; the fun grows in the relationship and you grow closer and stronger every day.

   一起開懷大笑——笑是良藥。當(dāng)你倆一起開懷的時(shí)候，你們的關(guān)系也會伴隨著笑聲一天天地親近和堅(jiān)固起來。　　

 
11. Send a card for no reason--another cliché? Maybe, but everyone likes to receive a nice "I love you" or "I miss you" notes every once in a while.

   沒什么緣由地送張卡片——又很老套嗎？不過誰不喜歡時(shí)不時(shí)地收到些“我愛你”，“我想你”之類的卡片呢？

 
12. Listen--this could be the most important one ever, but note that you should listen with empathy and not just hear what they are saying; you should get involved.

   聆聽——這非常重要，但注意聆聽的時(shí)候你應(yīng)該全情投入并參與其中，而不僅僅只是聽到了對方說的話。

 
13. Encourage--positive support and being there for one another is also very important; seek their support and give them yours and be generous!

   鼓勵——彼此支持是非常重要的。向?qū)Ψ綄で笾С植⒖犊亟o予對方支持！