Bachelor in Paradise’s Jade Roper is opening up about what may have led to her miscarriage earlier this year.
《天堂單身漢》的杰德·羅珀透露了今年早些時(shí)候流產(chǎn)的原因。
“Our sweet Beau was diagnosed with Down syndrome, so we think his tiny heart wasn’t strong enough,” Roper, 36, wrote via an Instagram Story Q&A on Wednesday, November 1, after a fan asked what had potentailly “caused” her recent pregnancy loss. “A lot of DS diagnoses are accompanied with congenital heart conditions.”Roper — who shares three children with husband Tanner Tolbert — announced in August that she had miscarried her fourth child, a son named Beau. (The couple, who tied the knot in 2016 after meeting on BiP season 2, welcomed daughter Emerson in 2017, son Brooks in 2019 and son Reed in 2020.)
11月1日星期三,36歲的羅珀在Instagram故事問答中寫道:“我們可愛的博被診斷出患有唐氏綜合癥,所以我們認(rèn)為他小小的心臟不夠強(qiáng)壯。”此前有粉絲問她,是什么“導(dǎo)致”了她最近的流產(chǎn)。“很多退行性椎體滑移的診斷都伴有先天性心臟病。”羅珀和丈夫坦納·托爾伯特育有三個(gè)孩子。今年8月,她宣布流產(chǎn)了第四個(gè)孩子,一個(gè)名叫博的兒子。(這對(duì)夫婦在《BiP》第二季中相識(shí)后于2016年結(jié)婚,2017年迎來了女兒愛默生,2019年迎來了兒子布魯克斯,2020年迎來了兒子里德。)
“I’ve been struggling [with] what to write here as I’ve been navigating a miscarriage,” Roper wrote via Instagram at the time. “It felt like all my dreams were coming true to welcome another baby into our lives, to love and to complete our family. While our hearts [are] completely broken and we have been dealing with the deep and complex grief of the loss, we have been blessed to be touched by his soul for his short amount of time. I am forever changed.”She explained to her followers at the time that she was experiencing a “missed miscarriage,” which meant that while “his heart has stopped and he has stopped growing (for some time now) my body hasn’t released the pregnancy yet.” She noted that she was “hoping to do this naturally” and avoid any medical intervention.
羅珀當(dāng)時(shí)在Instagram上寫道:“我一直在掙扎著在這里寫些什么,因?yàn)槲乙恢痹诮?jīng)歷流產(chǎn)。”“感覺我所有的夢(mèng)想都實(shí)現(xiàn)了,歡迎另一個(gè)孩子進(jìn)入我們的生活,去愛,讓我們的家庭變得完整。雖然我們的心完全破碎了,我們一直在處理失去他的深刻而復(fù)雜的悲痛,但我們很幸運(yùn)能在他短暫的時(shí)間里被他的靈魂所感動(dòng)。我永遠(yuǎn)改變了。”她當(dāng)時(shí)向她的粉絲解釋說,她正在經(jīng)歷一次“錯(cuò)過的流產(chǎn)”,這意味著雖然“他的心臟已經(jīng)停止跳動(dòng),他已經(jīng)停止生長(zhǎng)(一段時(shí)間了),但我的身體還沒有釋放懷孕。”她指出,她“希望順其自然”,避免任何醫(yī)療干預(yù)。
However, after sharing news of the pregnancy loss, Roper was briefly hospitalized due to a possible infection. The lab results came back normal, but she eventually went into surgery weeks later.
然而,在分享了懷孕失敗的消息后,羅珀因可能感染而短暫住院?;?yàn)結(jié)果正常,但幾周后她還是接受了手術(shù)。
“Well, here we are. I didn’t want or expect it to go this way, but it is,” she wrote via Instagram after the surgery. “I so badly wanted to bury him under a beautiful tree in our yard, to see any glimpse of his tiny body, which is why I held out so long trying to trust my body. But, it is time to heal and get to the other side of this loss.”
“好了,我們到了。我不想也沒想到事情會(huì)這樣發(fā)展,但事實(shí)就是這樣,”她在手術(shù)后通過Instagram寫道。“我非常想把他埋在我們?cè)鹤永镆豢妹利惖臉湎?,看一眼他那小小的身體,這就是為什么我堅(jiān)持了這么長(zhǎng)時(shí)間,試圖相信自己的身體。但是,現(xiàn)在是療傷的時(shí)候了,是走到失去的另一邊的時(shí)候了。”