他其實(shí)沒(méi)那么喜歡你 第67期:不接受分手

The "I Do Not Accept His Breakup" Excuse

“我不接受他的分手”的借口

Dear Greg,

親愛(ài)的格雷格，

Okay, so my music video boyfriend dumped mebecause he's an asshole, but now I have some of hisstuff in my apartment and I'm not going to give itback because I know he's going to change his mind,and I keep calling him and calling him to try to gethim to change his mind, which I know he will, because I know he really does love me and hedoesn't mean this, but all he wants is his stupid Palm Pilot back.

好吧，我的音樂(lè)電視制作人男友甩了我，因?yàn)樗莻€(gè)混蛋，但是現(xiàn)在他還有一些東西在我的公寓里，我打算去還給他，因?yàn)槲抑浪麜?huì)改變主意的，我一直在打電話(huà)給他希望他改變主意，我知道他會(huì)的，因?yàn)槲抑浪娴膼?ài)我，而且他不是故意的，但是他想的只是把他那氣人的掌上電腦拿回去。

A guy doesn't say all the nice things he said to me and take me to all the cool parties he tookme to and introduce me to all his cool friends and then just suddenly change his mind.

一個(gè)男人不會(huì)對(duì)我說(shuō)著種種甜言蜜語(yǔ)，帶我去各色派對(duì)，把我介紹給他所有的朋友，然后突然間，改變主意了。

People don't just totally, totally like someone one day and then wake up and not want to bewith them the next.

人們不會(huì)在某日完全喜歡上一個(gè)人，然后第二天醒來(lái)之后就想離開(kāi)對(duì)方。

I'm so completely devastated because I really, really loved him.

我完全絕望了，因?yàn)槲艺娴恼娴暮軔?ài)他。

You might not believe me, Greg, but I really did love him and I loved being with him and now Ican't even get out of bed' cause I've been crying so much.

你也許不相信我，格雷格，但我是真的很愛(ài)他，而且喜歡和他在一起，我現(xiàn)在甚至都無(wú)法起床，因?yàn)槲乙恢痹诳蕖?/p>

He's just in a bad mood and I'm not going to believe him.

他只是心情不好，我不會(huì)相信他的。

Signed Nikki

尼基

Dear Nikki,

親愛(ài)的尼基，

I'm sorry you got dumped.

我很抱歉你被甩了。

Can't say I didn't see it coming, but now's not the time to gloat.

不能說(shuō)我沒(méi)預(yù)見(jiàn)到，但是現(xiàn)在不是幸災(zāi)樂(lè)禍的時(shí)間。

What you need to do immediately is turn down the psychotic.

你需要立刻停止發(fā)瘋。

Calling him incessantly and holding his stuff ransom is really no way to win a man back.

不斷的給他打電話(huà)和拿著他的東西勒索真的不是贏回男人心的辦法。

In fact that's the best way to elicit the "What did I ever see in that psycho bitch?" response.

事實(shí)上這是引出“我究竟從那個(gè)神經(jīng)病婊子身上看到了什么?”回答的最好辦法。

Whatever happened to that super-confident, strong-willed woman?

那個(gè)超級(jí)自信，意志堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的女人發(fā)生了什么?

Has she been reduced to a groveling lunatic?

她已經(jīng)淪為了卑躬屈膝的瘋子了么?

No she hasn't, so cut it out, Nikki.

不，她沒(méi)有，所以，夠了，尼基。

Sometimes people change their minds, sometimes they meet someone else, sometimes theyget sober (he was drinking) , and sometimes he was just a jerk who you're lucky to be rid of(not that I was judging) .

有時(shí)候人們會(huì)改變想法，有時(shí)候他們遇見(jiàn)別的人，有時(shí)候他們清醒(他過(guò)度飲酒)，有時(shí)候他是個(gè)幸運(yùn)于擺脫他的混蛋(不是我所評(píng)判的)。

It doesn't matter, because you cannot change his mind.

這沒(méi)有關(guān)系，因?yàn)槟愀淖儾涣怂南敕ā?/p>

Oh, Nikki, please behave, because what will really haunt you later is not losing the excessive-drinker-who-didn't-ever-want -to-get-married-and-was-too-busy-and-self-important-for-you, buthow you behaved during the breakup. I swear.

噢，尼基，請(qǐng)注意行為舉止，因?yàn)樽罱鼤?huì)讓你苦惱的并非失去這個(gè)過(guò)度飲酒的、不想結(jié)婚的、太忙以及妄自尊大的人，而是你在分手時(shí)的表現(xiàn)。我發(fā)誓。

With love, Greg

愛(ài)你的，格雷格。

One simple rule, ladies: Always be classy. Never be crazy.

這是一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的規(guī)則，女士們：永遠(yuǎn)要有氣度。不要抓狂。

Okay, actually it's two simple rules, but trust me, you will never be sad you followed them.

好的，事實(shí)上這是兩個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單規(guī)則，但是相信我，你遵守它們永遠(yuǎn)都不會(huì)難過(guò)。

If for no other reason, it will ensure that you never have that awful memory of cutting hisclothes in half or dumping his dog on the side of the road.

如果沒(méi)有別的原因，它會(huì)保證你不會(huì)有把他衣服剪成兩半和把他的狗丟在路邊的記憶。