他其實沒那么喜歡你 第68期:分手方式的選擇

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A guy says he doesn't want to be with you.

一個男人說他再也不想跟你在一起了。

Sometimes that guy realizes he's made the biggestmistake of his life.

有時候這個男人會意識到他犯了人生中最嚴重的錯誤。

And then sometimes he doesn't.

但是有些時候他不會。

Either way, either way, your only job is to move on with your life, and fast.

不管怎樣，無論如何，你唯一的工作就是繼續(xù)你的生活，并且要快。

He can always try to chase you down as you're running down the block.

他總能設法追到你跑步的街區(qū)。

If he does, just remember that it will sound like this: "Let's get back together." "Let's go intocounseling." "Let's try again." "I miss you. I made a mistake. I want to be with you."

如果他這么做了，記住話應該是這么講的：“讓我們復合吧。”“讓我們?nèi)プ稍兲幇伞?rdquo;“讓我們再試試吧。”“我想你。我錯了，我想和你在一起。”

Here's what it won't sound like: "Will you walk my dog?" "Just calling to check in." "Want to seethat movie?" "Will you go to Cousin George's wedding with me?"

而不是這么說的：“你能幫我遛狗么?”“只是打個電話問問。”“想去看那部電影么?”“想跟我一起去參加喬治表哥的婚禮么?”

Here's What's Hard About This One, by Liz

這就是事情如此難辦的原因，莉茲

Oh, I don't know, how about loving someone and being with them and knowing their family andfriends and every inch of their body and seeing them naked every day and never having felt thisway before and feeling like your whole life has changed for the better and compiling hours anddays and weeks of happy memories and thinking you'll spend the rest of your life together andthen finding out that in fact he doesn't even want to see you...tomorrow.

噢，我不知道這樣會怎樣：愛上一個人，和他們在一起，了解他們的家人和朋友，熟悉他們身體的每一寸，每日裸裎相見，從未有過如此感覺，覺得自己的生活全部變的美好了起來，收集每時每刻、每日每周的快樂記憶，認為自己會跟他共度余生，卻發(fā)現(xiàn)事實上，他明天甚至都不想再見到你。

And so is it so wrong to wait around looking for a glimmer, a ray, a sign of hope from him thatperhaps he has second thoughts about it?

而且在附近等待著一絲、一束、一個希望的信號，希望他能夠再考慮一下是非常錯誤的做法。

That perhaps he has come to his senses and realized you were the best thing that everhappened to him, that no one will ever be as good to him as you were, that he won't findanyone who he can connect with on such a deep and profound level and who understands himas much as you do? Is that so wrong?

也許他會恢復理智，意識到你是他生命中最棒的存在，沒有人能比你對他更好，他再也找不到一個和你一樣相知甚深、如此理解他的人?這也是大錯么?

Is it so wrong to continue to talk to him, see him, bake him cookies, buy him presents, burnhim CDs, feed his fish, talk to his parents, call up his friends, break into his voice mail...justkidding.

繼續(xù)和他聊天，見面，給他做餅干，給他買禮物，買唱片，幫他喂魚，跟他的父母交談，召集他的朋友，偷聽他的語音信箱...開玩笑罷了。

But seriously, is it so wrong to handle a breakup in a classy, mature, loving manner, whereyou keep in contact and talk and remain friendly and perhaps go to the movies on occasion?

但是認真的說，用有氣派的，成熟的，充滿愛意的方式來處理分手，跟對方保持聯(lián)系，聊天，友好相對，也許偶爾還一起去看電影是非常錯誤的行為。