智慧人生篇章 第7期:同情心

To be compassionate is, if we take the word to bits,to suffer with another, to feel their suffering almostas if it is our own. So someone can work hard torelieve suffering, and be highly skilled in doing so,without thereby exhibiting compassion - theycould simply be doing their job and enjoying itschallenges. They show compassion only if theirefforts to relieve suffering arise from and express afellow feeling and sympathy. Now, we all want to belooked after by skilled professionals, but we wouldalso like to be treated not only with professionalism,but compassion too because another's sympathy does something to comfort and consoleme, even when, or perhaps especially when, there is nothing left for professionalism to do.

什么叫做富有同情心，如果我們說(shuō)的詳細(xì)點(diǎn)，就是有難同當(dāng)，感同身受。有些人會(huì)很盡力的緩解別人的痛苦，而且技藝高超，但看不到什么同情心的存在，他們只是單純?cè)诠ぷ?，并享受工作帶?lái)的挑戰(zhàn)。只有當(dāng)他們緩解痛苦的努力源于同感或者憐憫時(shí)，他們才會(huì)展示出同情心?，F(xiàn)在，我們都希望能夠由專業(yè)人士來(lái)治療自己，但我們也希望在享受專業(yè)治療的同時(shí)也得到同情心，因?yàn)樗说耐楹蛻z憫在專業(yè)技能無(wú)計(jì)可施時(shí)更能給我安撫和慰籍。